So I'm new to the game, so I need some advice. I manage to successfully get my first "PU" last night, and land a day 2 via text today. I set up a day 2 bowling. Being on how I'm new to the game I just want some tips for my day 2, so I can most effectivly increase my chances of getting laid. It's an HB8, BTW.

Here's how I texted and got a Day 2. Keep in mind I made some huge mistakes, but tried to plow through and still land the date. I'm just trying to do some confidence building, and gain some exp. I'm not looking for a relationship.

---please critique and give me some advice.

Me-I pretty sure every guy there had a crush on you.

Her-Yea, including you.

**Bit** Sheild?**

Me-Maybe a kindergarden one, maybe we should get together again sometime and see if it's worth more then that.

Her-I donno you can hardly handle admitting a crush, i dont know if you'll be able to hang out with me

Me-Your good at that you know?

Her-Good at what?

Me-Playing hard to get.

Her-Did you just call me a tease in a polite way?

Me-Not in a bad way.

Her-Being a tease that isnt a good thing

Me-I like the challenge

Her-I guess....
Her-I'm not trying to be a tease.

Me-Your right, I wasn't trying to insult you, and I like how you stick up for yourself. I still think we should get together and see if this 'crush' is worth anything.

Her-Ok when do u want to?

***after some scheduling I decide next saturday***

Her-Ok so what are we going to do then

Me-Well I happen to be an amazing bowler. I scored a 112 one time with the bumpers up, like 8 yrs ago We culd hit the lanes play some pool and give me braggin rights for the rest of forever.

Her-Yea i prolly suck more at bowling than u and pool probably even worse so u will for sure have braggin rights

Me-Well as it turns out I'm busy next saturday. I'll be whoopin yo ass!

Her-ya know i might have a lucky night and wouldnt be too excited im sure i could beat uat anything else

Me-yea, you might get lucky...

Her-Whatever, im pretty good at alot of things

Me-We'll see.

Her-OH WE WILL

SO definitly longer then I thought...But thanks in advance for reading. Like I said up top critique it please and then some advice for my day 2. Like am I taking the right approach with my PU? Is it save to drink on a day 2? Sh*t like that.

Thanks.

Be your BEST self, don't try and fake anything, changes come with time, and if you try to force them you'll just seem incongruent. Just be social, be funny, be confident.

Logistics for getting a lay usually go along the lines of:
Head to multiple locations and have multiple 'insta-dates' to ensure that she feels comfortable around you. If you stay in one location, it counts as one date to her sub conscious and she may be negative towards going out again, or going back to yours, however - if you change locations frequently, they'll feel a lot safer.

It's always easier if she's been to your place before, by this - make her pick you up, or tell her you're running late, and if she wants she can come over quickly before you guys head there and you'll give her a lift, etc. etc.

It's always easier to extract if you live near by, by this - she has less time to change her mind, and it's safe to say once she's at your house, she's going to be up for it (as long as you don't fuck up + know your LMR)

Hey, Thanks for the response. I managed already to schedule a day 2, only I made it for bowling...Is this gonna be a problem, because it is 'date-like' and not an 'insta-date' with a time frame?

Should I have her invite a friend or two, and I invite some aswell? Also would it be a bad idea to suggest buying beer or something? It is bowling, I just don't want to come off as trying to get her drunk.

Don't overanalyse it man, it's fine! It doesn't matter if it's date-like, and not an 'insta-date' kind of set up, it was just something to think about for next time. If you think you'll be uncomfortable if it's just the two of you, then invite some friends, if you don't think it will be, then i wouldn't bother. This is about you man, just take a chill pill and see where it takes you.

Ok bud... i didnt read the whole convo, but from what i read...

Your letting her depict the interaction.... Your making HER the PRIZE. You should be the prize she wants... she should have a crush on you. Your the PRIZE! I cant state that enough. Other than that... dont get caught up in Pick up personas.... just be the best you.... and your golden.


goodluck