You are only a loser if you compair yourself to other people.

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You are also a loser if you don't improve yourself in comparison with yourself.

Nooooo, you're only a loser if you're a loser......................'_'


Ok, jokes aside, I dont really think this is true because I think its human nature to compare yourself to others because no one's perfect, and everyone's insecure (in one way or another) and feel the need to compare themselves to someone else at some point or another.

"Hey everyone, the standards of mediocrity say that it's OK to compare yourself to others, so I'm gonna do that, too!"

Yes. It is human nature to be mediocre. Mediocrity is not what we are about, though.

What a pointless thread!

I'm a loser. Losers rock my socks

Well said Chief.

Why would you wanna compete against anyone but yourself?

You know you rock and if other people do not agree, they are wrong.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keeping_up ... he_Joneses


That basically explains why people compete with others.

Did you write that wikiepidia article?

I like the article and I think it rings true. Your neighbor is similar to yourself and you therefore can accomplish the same goals.

Many wanabe PUA's are not the equvilant of their neighbor. Some people have a better foundation than others. I know it sucks, but it's true.

As everything in life, nothing is black and white. I think people feel like a loser because they compair themselves to other people who have support systems. the "loser" thinks he is inferior because of the person he is, but he is just lacking a critical element - the support system.

I am speaking of myself, and after I realized how much a support system helps I established one and became much more socially better. I think to many people compair themselves to other people without knowledge of the other persons past. This is an unfair comparison and it creates stupid waves and feelings of inadequecy. If people were more positive they would be more willing to take risk and grow. The comparison of others stifles the risky adventours side.

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