so im talking to this one girl from work and so were passing notes and were on the subject of halloween since its a few days away. i told her that she should be a vampire since its the "IN" thing now-a-days. so she writes back yada yada then the note ended like this, "my BF danny wants to be cookie monster. what a dork! he was debating between that and a parrot! and he wants me to be the cookie! anyways dude im off @ 2 and the time has been going by really fast! saweet. thanks buddy!" so i dont know if she was trying to emphasize that he has a boyfriend but at the same time someone else told me that she was telling her the same thing, but made it seem like she was more annoyed by what her BF was saying rather than "hey i got a BF" i get a bunch of IOI's from her. also when she says "BUDDY" am i already in the friends zone?

interesting thread, I can only say that she is annoyed by her bf, would like to hear other pple opinions, I had a similar problem, especially the "buddy" calling.

Cheers

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I would say you are in the friend zone.
Or she IS into you but isn't sure if your into her, so she's not going to risk leaving a stable relationship for someone who she's not sure about.

But my first guess would be Friend zone.

Have you actually tried to build any sort of attraction with her?

right now i can say im maybe leaning towards the friend zone, well i have done some kino like an elbow shrug one time we were out. ok so there was this get together with everyone from work including her, i remember when i first entered the hotel bar because thats where it was at. when i 1st entered, shes the 1st person i spotted and she saw me and had that eye contact, she was the 1st person i said hi to, gave her a hug then greeted the rest of the room, which was a shit load of people think that gave me some DHV. well i tried to get the ISO but that didnt work out, then we planned on meeting at a different bar, so we left i saw her there but i didnt let her see me looking over there, but when i did see her, she was staring right at me but didnt talk because she was dancing. just a couples days ago i sent her a forward txt and it said "if your driving down the road and you turn on the radio, there is a song that reminds you of me. what song is it?" so she txt back saying idk, then i replied and was like "whatever song" then again she says i can think of any. i txt her back and said this is the song the will remind you of me and sent her a ringtone, one more drink by ludacris, its one verse that says one more drink ill end up fucking you.. then she says ooo thats ur new tone. at work as well i read her body language and her posture is majority of the time facing me even if im behind her. so wacha think?

lol dude go easy on the sleazy text's!!

its a good idea for a post FUCK text to keep that fun spark but man... even if a girl sent that to me i'd be creeped. just my two cents but..

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Chicks bring up the i have a boyfriend thing all the time it is just a way of saying that they aren't cheap, not really anything to worry about.

she likes you.. but she's hinting that she does have a boyfriend. .. that doesn't necessarily mean that you you have no chance, but she does want to make you aware of the obstacles. I think what you should do, is not be too intrusive (dont ask her too hang out or txt her all the time), but at the same time show her that you can see be a funny, friendly, socialable guy. Thats whats going to increase her chances of her cheating. She needs to know she can trust you and that your not a scumbag.

She'll never hint you on wanting to hook up (if you haven't hooked up before, and she has a boyfriend).. so don't ever expect it..

It's irrelevant if you're in the friends zone or not. Act as if you're not. Run a boyfriend destroyer on her. Just say how she is having such a brilliant relationship with her boyfriend and that you don't want to ruin that. Say he sounds imaginative, caring and NICE. Mention them getting married and settling down and having 10 children. Exaggerate just how perfect it will be with him. It should cause her to have big doubts.