Hello all,

It's been a while since I've contributed something to you boys. So after last night, I think I've got something useful to add for what is a difficult sticking to overcome for many guys.

Dancefloor game.

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First, a quick snapshot of last night:

I had met up with a couple of fellow PUAs who I hadn't seen a while - we were in the largest bar in town. One of my mates had the top floor, the other the bottom, and me the dance floor. There's the typical blonde 9 in the middle who all the guys are trying to hump. She brushes them all off with varying degrees of hostility. Same old story.

I end up dancing with her for 20 mins. Everyone, including all the tables around the floor (we're in the middle) is just staring at me, thinking, wtf is this boy doing, how the fuck is he getting her to POLE dance FOR HIM, in front of everyone.
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Now, enough of the bragging, and straight to the break down:

I happen to be a hip hop dancer, but you don't have to dance well to have dance game.

Dance game is not random and sporadic (unless it's a packed/squished club, then it's difficult to do much).

I'm just going to wack out some lethal pointers for you, in a vaguely/loosely chronological order. Are you listening. This is generally for the cream of the crop; the game is different to 7's and 8's where you can often just come in with a fun and confident vibe. This is for 9+'s. You know it because by the time you've seen her she's just told about 10 guys to fuck off. She's probably blonde and half naked. The chances of her wearing a short skirt or short shorts is about 99.9%.

1. Approach - don't make eye contact, and do a really silly, fun dance move. Do this in their circle or in their proximity. One I often use is to dance like a chicken crouching down. Success rate of 80% - the other 20% they'll enjoy it, but you're just entertainment rather than a contender. Either way, most guys won't make it beyond even looking at the HB.

Alternative approach - but less good - is to 'bump' into her and ignore her, and/or then look at her and brush your shoulders as if she made them dirty, in a really C&F way, but more cocky.

2. Now you've shown you're not trying to impress her like every other retard, the next step(s) is to CONSTANTLY REJECT HER, combined with physical push-pull. The way I usually get her involved after the initial funny move is to start a little dance battle with her. If you don't have moves, make it up and just be funny. Off the back off your initial funny move, if you've done it right, she will give you some (if very brief) attention. It's vital that you reject this in the cockiest-possible manner. Like I said, pretend she made your clothes dirty and brush the dirt off and give her a funny look.

3. It's working - just classic cat string theory. After constantly rejecting everything she gives, gradually allow her to give you more. If she pulls out a good move, or kino's you (after some rejection), REWARD the kino. DO NOT immediately latch on after she touches you as if you've won. Far from it mate. Be sure to accommodate her friends every now and then - this prevents the cock blocks, but also starts jealousy plotline. Now she really wants you, she keeps tapping your shoulder and pulling out increasingly more sexual moves to get your interest.

4. This is still competition. You're still dancing at a distance and having a fun vibe. Keep a serious /mysterious face, with only small moments of a sneaky smile. Allow all the chodes in the room to watch you; you are now the centre of attention, and in building this value, she wants to be a part of it - so it makes sense for her to stay with you. To quote the legend Bas Rutten - a trick of mine is to "USE THE AMBIENCE" - if there's a nearby pole (of any kind), start a pole dancing competition - THEY LOVE THIS and it incorporates a lot of sexuality. You go first. She won't want to be beaten on her femininity - it's got everything going for it.

5. After the competition is over, and there is a sense of mutual respect - start to get frisky. This is when you finally accept her kino (to some extent!!). Just go for it. Make her feel like a sexual goddess in front of everyone. Bend down low and stroke her legs. APPRECIATE MAN!! Do lots of twirls (not you, her) and some 'cutesy' dancing, like close up stuff.

6. Gain permission from her group, and if the situation is correct, play your normal escalation game to the close. If, like yesterday, the whole room is staring at you - once you've got so much value and social proof, by kissing you, they are also raising their value - this is the ideal situation, it's an 'our world conspiracy'; you both raise your value through the roof together whilst everyone else is envious. But still, if you're not confident with this, and everyone is staring at you, just get her digits or wait until later in the night - she'll probably close you anyway.

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And that's it!

To summarise:

1. Enter with a crazy/stupid/fun vibe
2. Reject and compete
3. Accept mutual respect and take care of the group
4. Get frisky and close.

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Final Note(s):

The collective imperative states that as the man we should always lead - and this should always be the case when dancing close up. However, before the contact dancing, when you're still in my 'competition' phase - in my opinion, you shouldn't make the first kino move, or the first important kino move (usually holding hands or coming torso-to-torso).

As we're talking about 9+'s, they usually know when you've one them over, and they happily accept defeat. They will often offer their hand to you, or make the first big kino move. Let them do that. If you go for it first, woe betide you son - I don't know, it just triggers the 9+ self-destruct oftentimes. There's no need. They are in touch with their sexuality and if you have played the game well, they respect that, and let you win by allowing you to be their prince.

Once that has occurred, continue to lead as usual.

Gambles out.