Hi

I want to ask out this girl that I know, but she was introduced to me by another guy and they're really good friends. We all live really close to each other and when we first met he was really excited about the three of us hanging out (he doesn't know many people around our area) so if I was to ask her out for a coffee or something, I think she would feel pressured to invite him along or at least say something like "is .... coming?" and thus maybe make me look like a dick if I say, oh I didn't invite him. Cause he might be pissed that we didn't invite him or something.. What do I do to get a chance to hang out with her on her own without the pressure of inviting this other guy?

Thanks!

Well if I would be at your place I would talk to the guy first to let him know what I want to do. Then ask the girl and if she ask you about the guy you can tell her that he can't that day or work something up with the guy ( if he is your friend ).

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

I just met both these people and it might be a bit weird to get in contact with him just to say, "im asking .. out"..

Well you could go a couple of ways. If you don't know him that much you could go flat out 'are you guys going out together?' when she asks you if he's also invited.

You could also plan something with her when you know he can't come.

And of course you could talk to him about it first.

It all depends if you want to keep him in your social circle or not regardless of what happens to the girl and you.

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but if you really like her go out together be really fun. have a good time with the male and show her that your dominant not him. but still be mates. you could even talk to some other girls when you guys are out so shes had social proof of you.

then one night you 3 walk in their place, drunk... male friend passes out on the sofa, u 2 sit up and talk all night, watch a film, make out then bang!!!!!

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