Now I've read both Strauss, Mystery, Adam Lyons and also alot of NLP which I like to use (not so much Jeffries though, I mean he has some useful stuff but most if it seems somewhat creepy to me

). I'm also reading a book on body language I plan to imply so that I get better at calibrating, and also to mention some state that a person might be in or whatever, so that I can lead the discussion towards mind psychology and run some NLP drills - with the intention of indirectly attracting the "target" towards me.
I decided I'd take a somewhat natural approach at this, meaning very little canned lines. They just won't work convingcinly and I'd feel bad doing them. I'm very much into Adams approach, even though Strauss and Mystery obviously also has some things to offer.
So my general tactic would be to use Adams theories combined with NLP.
I figure I kind of need a road map. I have used alot of this just to try it out for the fun of it, and it has worked but I've never gone very far because I haven't really been able to distuingish between "steps" that much, or lay a strategy that would make me comfortable in knowing what I wanted to do.
So what I need is something that makes be able to distuingish between steps and what to do. Now this wouldn't include any explanation of theory or therms, just basically a basic well, road map I guess.
Could anyone help a newbie out in this?