Hey guys, was wondering the best way to tell a girl to go f*ck her self without saying go f*ck your self...when she is rude and says something like "I'm not in the mood to chat"...when all you did was say hi?

What's wrong with telling her "OK", and then moving on to the next girl?

Well let me say the answer she gave you was justified and will happen its a shit test and you need to learn to plow through it. You should not have walked away but rather break through the bitch shield. Also never open with high girl's know immediately at that point that your hitting on them and that raises there comfort levels causing them to be bitches so never open with hi. Remember bro women can be cruel we just need to learn how to control them trust me its possible don't walk away you obviously went to get somewhere with her so try and plow through the shield. If it still doesn't work then just say I understand and walk away but at least try and plow through it cause you'd be surprised once you plow through the shield how much they will be into you.

A bitch "shield" would be more to the tune of, "What do you think you are, a pick up artist?" "You're kinda pudgy. . . " "Oh no . . . go ahead, let me hear it." "Look, I have a boyfriend . . ." "Sorry, you're not my type." etc . . .

A shield ALWAYS leaves space for dialogue.

I suppose her tone would be the telling factor but usually, "I'm not in a mood to chat." - isn't a shield. Go ahead and keep talking . . . The second thing she'll tell you is, "Are you deaf? What the hell did I just tell you?"

well one could argue that but i think it depends on the setting cause if she is in a club she didn't go and get dressed up for her girlfriends she wanted guys to approach her. By going up and saying Hi her comfort levels would raise and she would say things like do you mind were busy , im not in the mood to chat, or some of things you said. I think it depends on the setting and on the tone so i mean i don't think anyone is wrong here. I just don't think there was enough detail because her saying that to you in a club and her saying that to you in day game are 2 different things. If she says that in day game in a public place its most likely how she feels but if its a club setting or anything like that its a test because a girl wouldn't go to a social gathering such as that if she wasn't in the mood to talk. Good answer though i like how you brought up tone because that does play a major role.

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Sinn says "blow me or blow me out" Deal with shit tests/bitch shields by just plowing on and being positive. If you don't get anywhere within 5 minutes then politely say "nice talking to you have a good night," and move on.

I ask this question to myself sometimes... I get annoyed/irritated very easily and sometimes find myself matching the persons smart ass remarks.

But, I've learned now, I don't respond and maybe walk away. Normally I'd just turn my back and not respond to it.. that is, if I have something to turn and look at/talk to, haha.

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Why not ? If she insults you, why can't you insult her back before leaving her ? Is there anything you can gain if you just walk away without reacting ? I mean, I am not saying that you should insult her back. But if you feel like insulting her, why wouldn't you do that ? If every guy she is rude to, would insult her back, she wouldn't be so rude anymore. Bad behaviour should always be punished. The problem is that many guys are impressed by her good looks and she knows that so she thinks it is ok for her to be rude because she is pretty and a man should walk away with his head down if she says so.

I do agree that if you insult her back, you should do it in a classy way and not like a cheap bitch. Your insult should be a bit smartass.

Its not gentleman like.

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Who says we have to be gentleman like? I am not saying one should be outright rude to girls and what have you. But lets get real here the 1950's are dead.

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Gentlemen don't get far in life.

Yes they do. Wussies don't.

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Gentleman gets far. If you think gentleman kisses every girls ass, you are wrong. You can be attractive, but also a gentleman.

For example, James Bond. Does he ever need to say "Fuck off" to someone, he gets laid but he still is a gentleman to women.

Dont ya start whining that its a movie, I KNOW THAT ALREADY.