So the other night I had just gotten out of a movie with a few friends and we were heading back to one of their houses to crack some beers and have a guys night. I get a text from this target girl of mine saying how she really needs a ride across town. (We are all in HS) Its pouring down raining out.

It wasn't far out of where I was going anyway so I dropped my friends off and just told them I would meet them in a little while. I was thinking, what the hell, I have been in her situation about a thousand times before.

(Side note: I have this girl pretty hooked, I had her calling me "master" via text, etc. She also has a BF. Nothing serious, its early and HS so I'm not really phased)

She jumps in my truck and her friend gets in the back seat. Already I'm realizing, wait, this was a mistake. So i decide to mess around with them a little and drive in the complete opposite direction, the meanwhile negging the target and talking to the friend. I'm quite sure I recovered pretty well but I made it clear at the end that she owes me one. Big. What can I do to gain some ground on this situation by using that as leverage?

Cheers

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If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

Stop thinking about leverage.

Your making sex with her sound like a favour that she performs for you, stop that, sex is a mutually pleasurable activity.

If you just want to have a "favour" in the sense of "hey, you owe me a beer", next time you want something, tell her...

Simple as.

don't ever bring it up again

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Oh Fin, dont get me the wrong way, I wasn't looking to use it as leverage from a sex point of view. I meant that I think it was pretty AFC thing to do to have actually given the ride. By leverage, I mean what could I do to put myself back into a good position. I wasn't even thinking sex.

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If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

its only AFC to give the ride if its a long distance, and nowhere nearby.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

It’s an AFC thing to do only if you think it is an AFC thing!

You haven’t lost anything by giving this ride. In my opinion you’ve shown her that she can rely on you and that is a rare thing nowadays. Being an actual good person isn’t equal to being the ‘good guy’, if you know what I mean.
Don’t mention the favor you’ve done to her. That will make her realize that this kind of action isn’t anything special for you but more of a usual thing to do for a close person. That in my opinion is an actual DHV, very far away from any kind of AFC behavior.

Smiles
Jez

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“A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes.”

I remember watching a video featuring Kezia where she mentioned the difference between a nice guy and a good guy.

I think the latter applies here. There is nothing wrong with being a good guy. Its nice guy you want to steer clear of!