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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 1:20 pm 
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So there is my situation, I am 18 and still a virgin. It's not really that the problem. I want to know if you guys told the girl you first splet with you were a virgin. I don't know if I should tell or not. I ask that because last friday morning I was going to my class with one of my friend (girl) and we end up talking about sex. Then...she asked me THE question, if I am virgin or not. I felt like this question destroyed me for I don't know reason. So now I want to know what to do if I can f-close with a girl and ask me that question, or if she doesn't, should I tell her.

PS: If you have any other advices about that subject it will be nice. :P[/i]

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 2:02 pm 
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So there is my situation, I am 18 and still a virgin. It's not really that the problem. I want to know if you guys told the girl you first splet with you were a virgin. I don't know if I should tell or not. I ask that because last friday morning I was going to my class with one of my friend (girl) and we end up talking about sex. Then...she asked me THE question, if I am virgin or not. I felt like this question destroyed me for I don't know reason. So now I want to know what to do if I can f-close with a girl and ask me that question, or if she doesn't, should I tell her.

PS: If you have any other advices about that subject it will be nice. :P[/i]
If i was getting one night stands than i wouldnt tell the girl that im a virgin. Im an alpha male, i have never even BEEN a virgin!
Im not sure how it would benefit me by telling the one night stand stranger that im a vigin. Because i want to tell her before we have sex that i might suck at it? Because i want compassion?

In the other hand if i was a virgin and been dateing this girl for a long time ( without having sex with her ) maybe than i could tell her because we would have a stronger bond between us. After all, a meaningfull relationship is all about shareing personal stuff with another human being of whom you trust and share your feelings with.

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Theres no real need to unless it comes up.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 2:19 pm 
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As far as the girl (friend that asked you) I would just wink slyly and say "don't worry about it." Or throw some other cocky/funny line her way. But for stands, I wouldn't bring it up. Relationships on the other hand, Johnny B. nailed it.

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Thank you for the answers guys. Short and simple. :P

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