First off im sorry if this under the wrong section. Ok theres a girl i like who my friend originally met at a party. Things didnt quite work out between them and me and the hb9 became close. During this period before i even started to game her she was talking about exs and stating how she doesnt want a realationship. I recieved a few friendly iois and things began to esculate and i managed a kiss close. However from this point on ive struggled to maintain momentum. Shes the kind of girl who acts aloof and is friendly at same time.

In person i seem to be able to build good comfort but i havent been able to escualte things again. Im always playful and tease eachother. Id like to make what we have more than a one off and am going to the hammersmith appollo with her two other people on wednesday and need any advice or techniques to help. After we got with each other i think i was a bit too eager and have lowered my value is there any quick ways i can restore it? Id like to include also that i dont think i have oneitus as i have been gaming other girls but this girl is definitly something id want to pursue. One reason for lack of contact is also that she lives about 2 hours away soo meeting up is quite hard.

Actions have more of an affect than words when it comes to escalation in my opinion. I let the actions do the talking. I can talk to her in a normal way but use my physical contact to let her know my intentions.

I went to the Apollo the other week and know how busy it gets! So hold her hand and lead her through the crowds. When you get through the crowd, test it. Keep holding her hand. If it seems to bit a little akward or you can feel her pulling away then let go.

Physical Contact is most important, so up it bit by bit until she becomes comfortable with your touch. Such as sit/stand close with legs touching, holding her lower back, put her legs over yours whilst sat, face touching to whisper in her ear, run your fingers through her hair. With regards to routines/things to say to turn it slightly sexual:

Tell stories of your life, like your ambitions, but include her in them.

If she asks you to do something for her, reply "Pfft.. Whats in it for me? Go pull that guy over there, he'll blatently kiss your ass 24/7" With a huge smile on your face. I tend to then do it, as long as its not a huge thing like 'go get me a drink'. If shes ask you that, tell her to come with you.

Also, how about talking about her in a kind of sexual way. e.g. "Im so gonna employ you as my PA, you got to pass the interview first, and its compulsory that PA's wear sexy glasses and short skirts!"

Let me know if this helps!

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Thanks for the reply ill try to do the escalation. One thing to note is were both in college soo the p.a thing might be a bit weird! And i can talk to her no problem in person jst esculating or recreating the sexual tension is the hard part.