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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 1:04 am 
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Ok ...
So.. just friday, I met a girl I met online. We went to the movies, coffee.. blah blah
We made out, etc... she was pretty nervous
I felt a connection with this girl from our text messages and what not.
So just yesterday I met her for the first time.
Today I received a message from a mutual friend, about something concerning the girl ...
So.. I texted the girl and asked her what was going on, to not lie to me etc...
So she replied and blah blaaah..
Then I sent her another text... apologizing for being "like that", that Im not usually that way. .
And she mentioned on her text
Not to worry but she doesn't like when we come up with that childish stuff, she said we could be friends.
Im a little confused here.
I don't think Im already in the LJBF zone, my opinion is that she got a little mad about me asking her that stuff.
I wanted to call her today, but I won't until tommorow, and ask her out.
My plan is to act as if nothing had happened, and tell her face to face, that I won't let some stupid thing ruin what we can have (Because we both connect in a certain way)


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 1:28 am 
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That sounds like a great plan, but coffe and a movie? thats the big concern here, its too original, do something more special on your dates and specially now when you have messed up.




a bad move:


"My plan is to act as if nothing had happened" (something did happend, and she is mad)

a good move:

"tell her face to face, that I won't let some stupid thing ruin what we can have (Because we both connect in a certain way)"


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 2:54 am 
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That sounds like a great plan, but coffe and a movie? thats the big concern here, its too original, do something more special on your dates and specially now when you have messed up.




a bad move:


"My plan is to act as if nothing had happened" (something did happend, and she is mad)

a good move:

"tell her face to face, that I won't let some stupid thing ruin what we can have (Because we both connect in a certain way)"
I just called her, told her that ... we spoke about that friend of hers, and she told me that she always tells her and her ex's stuff about each other.
I've decided to not talk to her again.
But she said everything was fine, and the only thing she asked me is to take things slow.
Im happy now =)
We're going out tommorow.
Thanks for replying!


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:04 am 
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No problem :)

Good luck on your next date! :wink:


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