If you haven't an intelligent thing to say in response, say nothing at all.

Whats unintelligent about his statement?

Actually I should restate that..........I wasn't thinking myself......I meant if he doesn't have anything decent to say.

you're giving up too quickly - you haven't been rejected a particularly abnormal amount of times.

Its because I dont really want to be rejected..........I figure that there are maybe 5 more chances for me.......if those dont work, then I'm really not gonna try (not to say I try too much to begin with, but you get the idea).

Grow some fucking balls.
I think sinn said it best when he said regarding AA. "Man up and stop being a pussy"
Hundreds of thousands of people will read the game. Thousands will look into it , and a few of these will have the balls to go out there and get rejected.
If this shit was easy then we wouldnt have these forums.

Everyone has AA. Either grow some bollocks and go out there and put yourself on the line, or take your negative attitude away from these forums.

We are men, we are leaders. We should be scared of what people who dont know us think of us.

Wow seriously if we all gave up after a couple failed attempts this forum would not exist let alone the community. honestly there will be nights i fail to approach and open any more then 2 sets (which i may not even number-close) the next night ill go out and open 3 sets and number close 3 and kiss close 1, this is "The Game" this is why we play, yeah when it's easy its great but if i fail it just makes me try harder and take it to another level the next night out, DEAL WITH IT bro you will get rejected by some and you will be desired by others play the game and have fun with it dont cut yourself short just try harder

......and your fuckin attitude about it is any better? Yeah, didn't think so. Honestly, telling someone to "grow some fucking balls" doesn't help anyone at all. It really just makes the person saying it look immature.
I understand what you're saying but its hard when you dont really believe in yourself.

Yea, my attitude is a lot better, because i don't let anything beat me.
If you want to watch your life go by while you piss and moan about everything then fine.
I have the feeling whatever anyone says to you, your belief system is going to make sure you don't listen.
People have given you advice, if you dont want to take it then leave the community and go find something else that makes you happy.
It's hard enough to keep ourselves in the right frame, without having to drag everyone else along.

Like i said, grab your life by the balls, now, or stop whining about it

Eh, no, your attitude isn't......well not with comments like what you made in the previous quoted post. I've tried some of the advice I've read on here but it doesn't work because.....do I have to spell this out?????? Yeah, I guess I will........They. Have. Boyfriends. and I'm not the kind of guy to get in between a relationship. Sure theres a chance that its a "shit-test" but I dont have the time to play that shit.

there's a reason why its called the game - this is a game and if you refuse to realize and accept it you will keep that wrong attitude and limit your success.

Sinn is one of the better pick up artists together and it took him like 6 monthss of going few hours everyday to the mall and getting rejected till he had some success, and even now as any other men he's getting rejected from time to time.

If you're going to get upset everytime some girl tells you she has a bf or reject you completly then really i dont know what you're doing here. If you 'dont have time to play that shit' then you prolly better off leaving, and keep dreaming girls will come knock your door or whatever it is you are thinking.

No particular reason to assume anything. You don't know her and she doesn't know you. Assuming that she hates you or loves you or has any thought of you prior to meeting her is just la-la land. Why bother with useless thoughts? You're wasting brain power. You see a "desirable" chick and you should be thinking - Opener, opener, opener . . .

And I suppose it's an interesting idea to create a schedule for yourself. If you have a goal, a strategy, and a method, the next step is to schedule it. If you go this route then I favor what bondguy wrote earlier because when you go out to a club or a bar, you ALWAYS end up opening up more than just a handful of sets (even after you found your girl . . . it just demonstrates a high level of social energy which girls seem to love)

Having said that, PU is a "game" but it's also just a way to make new friends. You should always be warm to the idea of making new friends. This goes way beyond a pretty face or your hormonal needs. We live in a constant state of karmic collisions. When you simply walk around with an "open mind", you will cross paths with people you were just meant to meet. Why is this smiling girl standing in front of you? Why is this girl picking up her coffee at this time in the day when you're also doing the same? ----- To NOT speak to her is to fight your karmic path. Open YOURSELF up to your life. Speak up . . . Meet her.

Why limit yourself to this ridiculous and arbitrary number?

The way I look at it there are as many chances as you want there to be. Do you live in a freaking commune and there are only 5 more girls who you could possibly approach? I mean really, there are billions of women in the world!

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Okay I have a piece for you. Most PUA's will advise against it, but it's worked for me so whatever. It doesn't cure your AA completly, but it might help. Go out, one or two nights, to a faraway city, and go and fuck up sets. You know... Open with shit like 'Hey, how much would you pay for sliced dick in a bun?' Do this with a wing, so you can laugh it off later. You'll be rejected, all the time, and it will feel good, you'll laugh alot, and you'll see it's no big deal.

Dude, you make it sound like there are only those girls available! There really are literally millions of available girls out there for you. Ones that don't have b/f's (or say they do). The one hot girl at your work... maybe you should just flirt with her simply to boost your own self esteem, and then head out to the bar on that high to try open some more ladies.

I can understand the feeling like it is all futile, i have been through those stages myself and this wont always be the case... when it rain, it pours! Try and be positive about this - you are now a reformed AFC and the fact that your attempting openers is awesome and definitely means your on the right track. You might just need to give it more time and read a few books to reignite the desire to be a star with the ladies!