I asked girl I know as an acquaintance for a couple of years out to go "do something". She seemed excited, then I let the time pass for a couple of weeks. A couple of days ago I saw her again and she reminded me, I told her I'd hit her up. I did that evening late by text and she gave a tiny bit of resistance wanting me to qualify the movie as "really really funny" (she's younger -- 20, shy and international Asian). She agreed when I mentioned the movie, whatever... (I built it like now or never, next weekend of Halloween had to spend time with kid brother, otherwise working, she's out of town this Sat/Sun -- set it for Friday).

I said I'd contact her the next day with the details. Did so yesterday, she seemed not to want to go to the popular theater close to our school (Asian friend judgment I gather), changed it to another one and set it with a dinner before. She okayed it with a smiley in the text, I said I'd pick her at 7.

She today she just texted last minute, 2 and half hours ahead without explanation basically "Can't make it, let's do it next time, sorry about that." I think I'm going to wait it out until 45 minutes before, then call her (no voicemail) and make it somewhat difficult (maybe say "forget it?", text it if she doesn't answer). Any solid advice for last minute flaking?


(EDIT: Oh yea, she also posted at like 4am this morning on her Facebook status about how she "was done with her homework and ready to see the movie!!!", but deleted that since, I imagine thinking I didn't see it because I'm rarely on.)

Lmao, I've got a routine I just tried bit it's risky. Tell me if you want it

Let's hear it, haha. She's pretty shy and socially uncomfortable/low self-esteem but sweet, btw. I don't really care about the outcome, I believe she's heavily religious behind the scenes, probably not very promising. Roll the dice, why not.

Nvm, I don't think it'll work then. If you read "Experiment Backfired" or whatever you'll see. I think it's aimed for bitches or something

PUA:Really? Look you made a commitment to spend time with me and now your blowing me off. You're disrespecting me and my time. My rule is, if someone makes a commitment to me, I expect them to keep it. If not, I need to know a day in advance to make other plans. Got it? If you can live with that rule, cool... if not, later.

Plus I came off as a huge dick because it was over text

She just sent another copy of her original text, starting with "FWD:" 20 minutes before the agreed time. I played it like I didn't get the original and think it's bullshit but I don't really give a shit:

Me: "How last minute... That's too bad, we could have had fun. No problem, I'll invite someone else"

ahh man a girl flaked on me last night...she was supposed to come over and sent me a last minute text! it pisses me off so much because normally she'd call but she didn't wanna have to deal with me bein pissed off so she text. I responded with a really bitchy text haha...no reply since :p

Regards

Lucky

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