So I get all these Speed Seduction tactics in my email bullshit and one was about girls that flake. Anyway I had a date today with a girl I already had sex with and she texted last minute saying she had to study for a midterm and can't go out. Here's how it went:

Now this is the jist of what Ross Jefferies sent

HB: Blah Blah, can't go, blah
Me: Really? Look you made a commitment to spend time with me and now your blowing me off. You're disrespecting me and my time. My rule is, if someone makes a commitment to me, I expect them to keep it. If not, I need to know a day in advance to make other plans. Got it? If you can live with that rule, cool... if not, later.

After rugby practice 2 hours later I checked my phone.

HB: okay. Breathee its not that big of a deal so if you wanna not be an asshole about it thatd be nice. I'm ditching you for a midterm. like do you honestly think studyings what i wanna do with my night.

Now, I've been a push over all my life until I found this community so I wanted to try it out. We've had sex already and we have good chemistry. How do I recover without looking like a bitch?

Be cool and indifferent.

Apologise, but then say something like, 'make it up to me by doing xyx it's really fun.'

If she texts back good or bad, it doesn't matter. All you're using this is an indicator she's holding her phone in her hand.

You ring her up. Then you talk about xyz and how great it will be. done.

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So I saw the same girl on campus and we had that awckward stare-as-you-walk-by type of thing going.

Is there anymore advice?

Why didn't you say hi?

What she's saying is that it's not a big deal that you and her can hang out. However, acting like a dick will never get you anywhere. Ross Jefferies is a prick, he expects his magical words to win girls over because he's a wimp. The guy's insecure and power hunger, which again results in being inferior to others.

So now we got Jeffery the giraffe out of the way, now in order to make it up to this girl tell her what the person in this thread said before. Try that out. If that doesn't work out - try this:

"Hey, I apologize for being a dick - I'll make it up to ya "

if she says, "Okay, how" then say, "it's a surprise - can't tell ya! Why don't you see for yourself!"

This is getting her in a sexual frame because what I've gathered is that why you leave a woman with ideas of what you wanna do to her or how you can make it up to her sexually and have them guess - it drives them crazy. However, in a good way crazy!

Try it out.

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Yea, I can see now that Ross Jefferies is totally wrong, and it probably made things so much more worse then it could have been. Thanks a lot, if I bump into her again I'll apologize and take your sexual frame advice

To be fair, the ross jeffries line would have worked if this was a true flake (she ditches you because she can) not with a legitimate excuse (midterms). Midterms are a bitch you know.

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+1

Seriously, Foxtrot 5. You're being very weird right now. Do YOU hold dates as a higher priority over your responsibilities from school and work?

A flake is when a girl ditches you because she actually wanted to ditch you. Sometimes, though, more important things come up such as family tragedies, bosses making you work overtime, health issues, and midterms. In these cases, it really isn't fair to the girl to call it a "flake."

You really were being an asshole. Use those kind of lines from Ross Jeffries when you have a legitimate flake.

Also, it's more important to learn from your mistakes in order to do better next time rather than trying to recover with any specific girl