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Hey, could all you new posters and old alike kindly refrain yourselves from using the word help.
Words are such a integral part of our communication and believe it or not effect our deepest subconscious.
The word help, derives from helpless which in turn means; lacking in or deprived of strength or power.
When you use the word "help" the first thing your subconscious does is associate (anchor) a image and feeling behind that word.
Example:
Help - Helpless - Dead in the water - Expecting to be saved - Lacking the required ability to overcome the situation, dependent on others
When these connections are made and used often, they become habit. These habits are rooted directly into your subconscious which in turn are expressed by your body (your vibe). Use enough negative connotations and you will naturally feel and look like a piece of shit to women despite saying and using the right material! You won't have any success and you will be buffed and depressed wondering why on earth thats so. Even more disturbing however is that you DONT even realize this is happening.
There are better words, instead of screaming like a like bitch "HELP WITH MY GIRL PROBLEMS" you could simply say "Assistance required with a feminine issue". Little rewordings like this will keep you sane and going forward.
I personally don't read posts that say "HELP PLEASE" or any of that! And if you'd like genuine answers, by top coaches on this forum, i suggest you avoid this phrasing.
Hear hear! I concur. Also, people love being asked for their advice or opinion. This is why opinion openers work so well! Say "need some advice about this girl..." and people are far more likely to want to put in their 2p. Nobody wants to "help the needy" because it seems like some kind of charity and you don't feel like you're gonna receive any reciprocity.
CHAT
