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My current situation:
I've been seeing this girl on a student visa and she will be finished with her masters in December. When that happens she loses her student visa and must get a company to sponser her for a working visa. The company that will sponsor her is in New York and we are in Illinois. I'm stuck in Illinois for another four yeas b/c of my GI Bill while she will be moving to N.Y. this December.
I've invested two months and alot of "one on one" time with her. We get along perfectly on the physical level(giggity). She's smart, funny, ourtrageously cute, and has no little quirks that would make me dislike her. She has already dropped the L-bomb on me, which is a first, because I normally drop it first. Oh, and she totally digs my motorcycle, which is a big plus for me(what girl doesnt like a giant vibrator on 2-wheels).
My issue I need advice on:
Do I give her the "lets just be friends" speech and hope for the best? More importantly, if I am to do it, when would be the best time. Now or later?
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Do I keep with her and do the long distance relationship? They havent ever worked for me in the past, always get burnt. I dont know what type of loyalty is installed in the Russian society, so I dont know how much I can trust her. Much less me, I'm going to college and the temptation to cheat is around every corner.
Bleu
Long distance relationships rarely work out but they can with alot of work and trust! If you havnt been with her long then imo I would break it off because you might not have enouph of a bond to make it last....on the other hand If you have been with her for a good amount of time then it could work as long as both of you are willing to travel and see each other, and keep in contact on a daily basis...thats a long distance though!
How long have you been with this girl?
CHAT