First off, this guy is a genius!

I have found success inserting the chill guy line into my second message and having it work nearly every time if I get a favorable and excited response from my first message.

I've also noticed if you make a good OKC profile it translates into a GREAT PlentyOfFish profile. Women think you're witty for thinking of all those questions about yourself. The below technique has worked really well for me on PlentyOfFish. Not so well on OKCupid.


First Message...

Hi,

My name is (your name). I was reading over your profile noticed we both seem to like Baseball, the beach and rock climbing. I'm a big A's fan, who's your team?

(your name)


Now there are two kinds of responses I get (I get responses 80% of the time)

1) A one liner with an answer to my question...For this you need to follow my man's methodology that he outlined so well above.

2) An excited response about your profile and question.


ex. of excited message...

First of all... High Five for writing an intriguing and refreshing profile. DOUBLE HIGH
FIVE!!! (I believe that'd be a high ten) for writing ME!!

Yes baseball is my all time favorite sport, sadly I didn't make it to a single game this
season, But I was routing for Mi GIGANTES the whole way. (Volleyball is my second
favorite)

Great pictures too!

Hows the week going for you?

Are you a native san jose-ian?


(Her SN) aka (her real name)


If this happens which it does about 40% of the time then I insert the following message.


Hey,

High ten?! I'll take it and thanks for the positivity, I'm sure feeling the love : ) I still remember when the A's beat the Gigantes down in 1989, not like we'd have any chance of doing that now a days. That Tim Lincy fellow is sure unstoppable.

My weeks fantastic with one exception. Tomorrow is my bosses last day. I'll miss her dearly.

So I know we're both using an online dating site, but I'm really personable guy, and over the internet is no way to get to know someone. I'm not a native San Josian but I have been hearing great things about Barefoot Coffee in somewhere USA. Apparently they make incredible leaf designs in the foam. Come with me. It will give us a chance to ask all of our questions in real time and if I find out that you're out of your mind crazy, a coffee date allows for an quick and easy exit. Both Wednesday and Thursday night work for me.

(Your Name)
Your Phone Number
(AIM)


And there you have it. 5 minutes of copying, pasting/mad libbing and you're on a date at a coffee shop with a girl you're attracted to.

P.S.- beware of the SIF's (secret internet fatties) If they seem TOO excited and only have face shots make them add you on facebook so you get the skinny on them.

Awesome stuff

hey guys, sorry for bringing up this old topic, but there is a thing that is bothering me.
Maybe I don't get it because i'm from germany and i don't get the words, but in his profile he says "For starters, I'm not looking for someone to love me." in the very beginning, but in the end he says "And so by extension of that I guess I'm...looking for someone to love me?"
how can that make sense?
Or did I miss something?

Can someone post the complete profile, or a link that is still working?
thanks mates
greetings

I'd guess you'd call it being witty or word play. It helps make the message sound smart and fun. That's how I view it anyway. I'm sure someone somewhere would agree with me at somepoint

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Thanks to the OP for posting this detailed view on Online dating. I've been using your Private message example in which says this:

You sound like you may be like minded. You enjoy being active cant sit still, and love watching good movies.

But ah! Do you have the same energy? The same attitude? I wonder...what's the craziest thing you ever did on a whim? Would you ever consider putting a live alligator in someone's bathroom for a practical joke? If you were watching a dinner show and the performers were asking for a volunteer would you sink back into your chair or would your thrust your hand up into the air and say "Me! Oh pick me! Me! Me!"

But I'm curious where do I transition when the HB just replies with
"i would love to put a gator in someone bathroom lol
and i would def yell pick me!!!"

Whats a good transition?

Any feedback would be appreciated Thank You!

Bump

I read this entire thread. Thank you so much for posting this, I have learned a tremendous amount that I will be applying this week. If the OP happens to stop by could we get a new non expired link as an example?

Take care.