| is the best way I can describe what I have been doing recently. It's amazing in giving you the upperhand.
Imagine if you had to fight some 6-6 300lb pro fighter. The only real strategy to have any chance would be sucker punch him and keep pounding him & not let up until he took control if he could, or until you have so dominated him enough you can let up and walk away the winner. That's basically metphorically how I have been opening recently.
The 3 openers I have used.
#1 If a girl even slightly glances in my direction make a be line over and completely seriously in a tone like your scolding a child "HEY, you can't look at me like that, and not say hi" Ill ad a coy smile at the end. The thing I've noticed is that puts them so much in their head, that they normally can't even mumble out anything they look dumbfounded like was I looking at him, so I just say " Im Dave who are you" to release the tension & as soon as they introduce themselves roll into something else quick before she can think. For all she knows she did look at you and backwards rationalizes it.
#2 if you are in a group of people, and a girl is in the vicinity, in the same tone, say "hey, were you ease dropping on our conversation....yeah you were, come here, who are you" or just step that direction. again normally they are so taken back and in their head they are just reacting & come over if they are only a few feet away. introduce yourself and roll into something different. I have litterly had girls so reeling I have added "blah, blah, blah" on to the end of a sentence and not even finished the thought and just rolled into something else. They didn't even notice.
#3 don't let the girl see you coming, just basically appear in front of her and say hey in a similar tone as described but very chill. I have been doing this by following people or weaving in and out & at the last minute just popping up so they don't see me coming. Just make it totally unexpected. It normally startles them and rocks them for a moment. Just stay cool like yeah I just rocked you, Im still standing here, lets see what you got.
In all these situations it's like the girl is scrambling to recover. Sometimes they never do and you just dominate until you have pounded them into submission and decide its time to back off, and other times the girls do get recovered even while you are still hitting them with your game, and when they do like a 6-6 300lb dude watch out prepare to get wailed on with shit test. I've noticed it's better just to eject at that point because you wont get that frame back once you went that strong with everything you had and still lost it.
I love it though. It's a strong approach.
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