| Most of these AMOGging gimmicks involve subtly calling the guy a fag or starting a verbal battle of wits. But if you put yourself in the shoes of the amog (you consider your actions were benign/friendly, and this guy calls you a fag and tries to make you look stupid in front of your group), you can see how someone with a fighter mentality might react to it.
Alpha Male naturals tend to use kino a lot, even on guys without thinking about it. You got to really pay attention to the dynamics and see if hes just being friendly in his own way, or actively cockblocking. Pats on the back, tapping on your knee, arm on your shoulder or lightly across part of your back, I noticed these are just friendly extroverted gestures that come naturally to a lot of people. In some situations you can do this back and match his energy level to show him that you are the boss and he is not dominant while you're in the group, like if you respond positively, talking to him like hes your buddy while putting your arm on his shoulder or tapping his knee. If you can't match the contact, being unreactive to his touch while responding positively gets you accepted by the group, and maybe easier than if the former AMOG didn't confront you. Because you show that you're a cool and fun guy, and not a threat.
Example of this is one time I got on the bus and sat in the back there an AMOG was with a group of 5 girls talking, and 2 guys doing nothing. He opened me and I talked to him like he was my friend, he was hitting me on the knee lightly and I didn't react to it at all. Soon afterwards when he was talking to other girls, other girls talking to me, and a girl next to him introduced herself and started rubbing my knee in the same place. So it was like the AMOG set a precedent for the group to open up to me.
Even when someone puts their whole arm around you tightly or gives you a forceful pat on the back, you know they're trying to AMOG/cockblock, but they still justify their actions as being friendly. I wouldn't recommend trying to offend or humiliate guys like this, as it creates unnessary violence, but to just ditch him or get him to leave. If its a douchebag claiming territory over a girl you've opened (his gf, sister, friend), I would just walk away, and if threats are made, call police. Someone's trying to hijack your sarge, freeze him out, just take her somewhere else, move around, switch locations, etc. If the AMOG follows you around, the girl you are with will probably tell him to quit stalking. _________________ 
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