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PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 10:08 pm 
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Well, I was with some friends yesterday (not my friends I hang out with) then I realized something...something big. My friends are not that nice. Not specialy with me, but with each other (everyone). We are all 18, but some acts like a bunch of kids. One of us try to be funny by insulting others...no one laugh, but he start to laugh loud and then turn arround from the person he just insult. And another one are the kind of person that have fun seeing other people not having fun. When we invite him to go out, he says no it's gay. But then when he wants to go to see a movie and someone doesn't want, he says that we are not fun and try to make you look boring. I don't know if you know someone like this, I am sure yes.

Anyway, I was thinking about hanging out with other of my actuals friends ( I have "a lot" of friends from diferent circle.) but I usually only know one or 2 person from each group. Also, I have all of my classes with my group of friend so it's why we are always together. I only have one class with some other friends.

What can I do to change friends circle when I always have courses with them?

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Well, I was with some friends yesterday (not my friends I hang out with) then I realized something...something big. My friends are not that nice. Not specialy with me, but with each other (everyone). We are all 18, but some acts like a bunch of kids. One of us try to be funny by insulting others...no one laugh, but he start to laugh loud and then turn arround from the person he just insult. And another one are the kind of person that have fun seeing other people not having fun. When we invite him to go out, he says no it's gay. But then when he wants to go to see a movie and someone doesn't want, he says that we are not fun and try to make you look boring. I don't know if you know someone like this, I am sure yes.

Anyway, I was thinking about hanging out with other of my actuals friends ( I have "a lot" of friends from diferent circle.) but I usually only know one or 2 person from each group. Also, I have all of my classes with my group of friend so it's why we are always together. I only have one class with some other friends.

What can I do to change friends circle when I always have courses with them?
Cultivate friendships with people who are positive, popular, funny, attractive and, most importantly, with good looking girls! If you have friends in other social circles, you can easily afford to ditch the ones that are negative or needy or unfunny. It's your life - don't feel you have to hang out with people you don't like just out of some sense of duty. Go out and do some day game and sarge in the evenings and you can make 10 new friends in a week if you want!


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How to do that? I never tried a day game, also I don't feel that confident to just engage a conversation with a girl I don't know and expect to be a part of her friends circle. :roll:

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How to do that? I never tried a day game, also I don't feel that confident to just engage a conversation with a girl I don't know and expect to be a part of her friends circle. :roll:
Girls are just people. Just pretend she is a guy. Say hi, what's up, how're u doing, what r u reading, do you know a good coffee place round here, can you tell me the way to a good clothes shop in the area, I like those shoes/jeans I have a friend who'd love them, where'd u get them etc. etc. etc. it's easy! You're not gonna be part of somebody's friend circle *instantly* but if you get some rapport going and joke around and tell stories, you can just be like, "hey it would be cool to hang out sometime and continue this conversation, lets exchange contact details." No need to make things complicated!


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the more uncomfortable situations you put yourself in the more you are progresing

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