Hi Guys,

I go by Johnny Powers most of the time. I’m 28 years old, and been in two LTRs. The first was 5 years long. I used to be a natural and found that I had been trained into being an AFC. I picked up the Game and watched a few DVDs and I was back on my feet.

My refound game eventually led me to my most recent LTR of 3.5 years. She dumped me 4 months after I left the country because my visa expired (LDR). The distance was surely a factor, but was far from being the real reason for the breakup.

I’m here now because I want her back. I’ve considered oneitis, but I’m really quite sure that she is someone with whom I could live a very fulfilling and happy life.

I thought that the community that got me to where I was could help me get back there.

Jpow

you have to balance love with practicality. I dont know you situation well enough, but i would have a good think about it.

I completely understand your situation, your stuck in that bit where you love someone lots, but to make it happen again would be difficult, and the risk of going out there and starting from square one with all these girls takes effort.

What do YOU PERSONALLY, JPOW, actually want?

What i mean by this is, do you really want her, or do you just want to have a happy relationship in general?

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Getme,

Thanks very much for your input and the excellent question.

If you've got the time to take a look, I left a much longer post about my relationship and my plan in the relationships section.


What I want right now is to get back with my ex. I have trouble imagining someone more compatible.

Long-term, I'm looking for is an incredibly fulfilling and happy relationship, something which I'm certain that I could have with her, if I could get her to take me back.

Let me know if I'm not clear...

Jpow