Hi guys
here's my story
I'm 19 (in college) and i learned about the game last summer.
The things i learned have boosted my self esteem in so many ways and i'm so much better casual conversations.

However it seems like i cant use the game at parties at college.
The thing is that i never really sarged a girl...Let me explain: sometimes the music is so loud that she couldnt even hear me and some other times im just scared.

It sucks cuz i learned so many techniques but i cant seem to use them. 3 second rule is easier said than done.
Im thinking that if i approach my my buddy (who doesnt know the game) it would be less scaring for both of us. But he just refuses.


I really dont know what to do now. Help me smack that aproach anxiety away.

(btw i said that i never sarged a girl but i meant i never opened a set... when know people in a set i join and we have fun)

Why are you sarging at parties only? Do some day game. I wish I had learned about PU when I was still in college - it's so fucking easy there! You can go up to any girl, walking to or from class, around college buildings/dorms and start a conversation. You already have things in common and if you project confidence and have stuff going on in your life you can so easily invite them to a party or something.

Also when it comes to loud parties, find the areas away from the music and just open there. Then go build comfort somewhere quieter, and maybe even get the f-close in one of your friend's rooms who's having the party!

I checked out lots of stuff about AA this weekend and Ive decided that im going to a party this friday and im gonna approach and use some of the material.

i dont care if i fail. i supose that if i only think about opening and meeting "friends" ill do better than if i think too much about getting the girl. (cuz this is what happened the nights before and i had like no interactions at all with girls at parties)

So i guess its just a first step and ill let you guys now what happens next.