| So I've read about this PUA stuff, but never taken it too seriously. Guess it follows that I rarely get laid.
Anyways, I found this girl that's been apparently crushing on me for years. She thought I was a player, and I asked her to hang out under those pretenses. We ended up making out, and she would give me LMR every time I went for something else (under the clothes, etc). Ended up making some wisecrack about how we're apparently looking for different things, etc. I diffused that by telling her I want a relationship (which I actually do, if I can get it), and things seemed OK. Made out some more. Since then things have been getting less heavy, partially because I'm backing away from the wall (I don't want her to say "no, stop", etc). At one point, she started telling me she needed space, didn't want a relationship right now (somethin about still getting over an ex) etc. Since then I've been pushing the "I really like you and I think we could have something real" stuff, which seems to have worked. We still hang out here and there, and when we do she's all over me. We still make out pretty frequently. I seem to be in trouble though. I'm not sure how to proceed from there.
The paragraph above summarizes to: We made out, I got some LMR. I asserted that I liked her and wanted a relationship, she kind of agreed but said she would need space for a while. We still make out sometimes.
Any way to repair this? How do I move forward?
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