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Not really a big fan of canned material as i seem to rely on it when talking to a girl but just wanted to get advice on any small talk topics i could bring up which arnt AFC
some i can think of is:
- The Area i come from compared to hers
- Guessing my job (love this one as girls tend to think i am in the music industry cuz i dress indie
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- How she knows her friends
- School (subjects we do)
Hey!
Instead of just talking about meaningless things like boring school i focus on destroying her LMR at this point. So i basically talk about things that create more " deeper " connection like talking about her childhood, shareing the same kind of style to view the world or bringing up sexual words in " non sexual context " to create higher sexual tension.
So basically i would pay attention to the following things:
Trying to prevent LMR by talking about these five things ( in a story mode ) that stops her sleeping with a guy:
1. STD ( Yeah, i once had a friend who didnt use a condom with a girl and i told him that i was just stupid because making love is a two way street. This indicates that you are responsible guy who thinks girl when having sex, not some idiot.)
2. Pregnancy ( i dont usually bring this subject up but it can be related to the previous sentence )
3. Falling too fast for love that leads to stalking ( Im going to move to the australia with in the next few months- this deletes the idea of you stalking her because you are leaving the country )
4. Social consequences like she thinking that her CO- workers might think that she is a slut if they find out a guy having one night stand with her ( tell a story about you meeting a guy at a bar counter and him pointing out girls that he has slept with. Info her that you find this very very stupid and that you keep all the personal things to yourself )
5. Her sleeping with me too soon and than by ruining the changes for the future relationship / friendship
Make the women feel comfortable with CREDIBILITY- letting her know:
1. i am safe
2. I understand and share her worldview
3. I can improve her worldview and change her reality by my guidence
Creating deeper connection between you two:
1. Asking things related to her childhood and than agreeing what she answers in a story mode or just complimenting. The deeper to her childhood you can go, the better because it creates stronger bond between you two.
For example: Compare me asking what she did last friday than me getting to know what was her favourite moovie at the age of six and than sharing that " whoa! It was my favourite film too! I remember my uncle taking me to this film and... "
Instead of just talking sh*t, concentrate to the future. It should be part of your game, not a loose piece. The conversation should have a meaning and something why you ask the questions. It should lead to something! This is also a huge piece in you puzzle when you call her again and she is thinking whether answering or not!!
Respect to Vin DiCarlo about some of this stuff!
[ Johnny B ]
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