after splitting with my gf of 2 years i know i need to talk to new girls and meet new people and get hold of my life, when i was going out with my gf i stumbled across the game like many of you did, i read it, i found it intresting at the time and i plan on re-reading it

i also have watched the pickup artist series 1 and 2 on vh1

i then read mystery method out of intrest and plan on reading rules of the game, but after all this the question i ask is

WHERE DO I START!

with that information in my head thats enough to make my head explode, now theres so many people saying this method or that method is the best, theres so many pua forums out there and just so much infromation, i could spend a solid month reading if i wanted too, i dunno where to start i feel overwhelmed with information

im thinking of breaking down what i feel is key things into bullet points?

any recommendations?

I would take a 2 prong approach if I were you.

1) start to talk to girls. Just 'Hello' or ' Hey' will do fine at first. Run the newbie mission.

2) Read other material. You seem to be only looking at Mystery Method products and you may get the feeling that's the only thing it's all about. There are a gazillion diffirent method out there, and the best for you might just be a combination of them. Don't take all he (or anybody) writes for the absolute thruth.

I would recommend getting a hold of David DeAngelo's double your dating and other of his material. It's a lot less 'technique' oriented. He works on your beliefs and mentality towards approaching women. You won't get lines from that guy, you'll work your inner game. I would also recommend the Gunwich Method. A very sexual approach to interacting with women.

I'm sure others will shime in with their recommended read.

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Don't be afraid to try some stuff out. Yes, you might fail. But you are going to anyway if you want to be good with women. Accept that.

Try out stuff to see what works and what doesn't. It's the fastest way to learn this game.

I would breake it like this.
Try to create a routine first which includes:
1. Opener ( who is my target from the group, do i use direct or opinion opener, how much should i use bodylanguage while talking to them, how do i negg them and for how long, what kind of kino would be good at this point whe she dont know me well enough, how long should i talk about the opener before moving to the mid game )
2. Mid Game ( how do i build up attraction, how to build up comfort, what dhv storys or tricks should i use, how do i prevent her friends trying to save her, how do i build up kino, what kind of kino would be good )
3. Closer ( how do i isolate her, how do i build up kino and comfort before kissing her, what about after the kiss, what do i talk than, how do i f- close her, etc )

After you have created your own routine, go to a bar and test how it works. At the end of the night start thinking / writing what worked and what didnt work. Correct your routine so that you place the spots that didnt work with things that works and after a while when you start to internalize what the whole thing is all about you will become natural.
I would also suggest that you study some stuff that Vin DiCarlo has wrote. He has a good point of view how to kino escalate and some really really good usefull stuff that is worth to learn!

Like the saying goes: " failure is the ultimate teacher "

[ Johnny B ]

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