I'm new to the game i read 'the game' a year ago but i havn't acctually been gaming as such just using the stuff i learnt from that book

anyhow this girl i got to be interested ive been fucking for a month or two now, however shes becoming more and more clingy, even though its clear shes not a clingy person so she manages to jump back a few steps when she feels she is been too keen, however i can tell that a lot of the time she has to hold herself back soas to not talk to me too much and put me off her

anyway i might just be an idiot and havn't read a particular post where this has been answered in but is there a way to get her to just wanting to be fuck buddies? or have i shown her too much of my personality and she likes it therefore doesn't want to let go?

basically we are not going out we are linking (sort of together but not in a relationship for those who don't know) and ive got a few girls on hold because she clearly thinks its exclusive or wants it to be and i want to start on these other girls without being a prick to her because to me the game is about playing girls while they know you are with others

is there a way to do this or should i just cut her loose?

cheers

no answers on this one?

oh god, please don't. read other material or watch pick up video, please.

maybe try just TALKING to her.

what is it with people on this site not understanding the importance of honesty.

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no no you misunderstand me
not litrally using "game" from the game but just general things you pick up that at that time are not second nature. i was so needyy and had no idea how to tease really well (which is like i would say the main way of flirting in london), i mean general things like that not litrally steps phases etc

i have started reading magic bullets which is quite good.

well shes become less needy now because ive been more unresponsive, so either shes trying to be less or shes litrally not as interested as i thought she was...if its the latter i think an honest approach would be easy. however the reasons i still want her as a friend with benefit is because i do like her a decent amount im just really not into anything serious SPAM because my last major relationship went so fucked and i geniunely don't like staying with the same person for a while because it gets boring for me now.

anyway didnt mean to give you a life story just it was more gaming advice i was looking for because even i can suss out being honest with somebody i just wondered if there was a way to do it...