Alright so here is the situation.... I am talking to this stripper here in Japan.. She ended up giving me her email and number, So we have talked for a few times and we are going to meet on Tuesday for a little date at Starbucks or some little restaurant. How should I approach this situation? Can anyone give me a play by play on what I should do?

She may be a stripper, but she's still a woman. How do you game a woman?

YES, Chief

My whole mindset is always SHE'S lucky to be on a day 2 with me. This is my amazing world I've created for myself and she's so damn fortunate to even be experiencing a little piece of it with me. She's hanging by a thread because I have so many options, and she's gonna need to keep proving herself to ME.

Read that, believe that, then get to the point where you *truly* believe that, then watch how it simply is conveyed in everything you do and say.

On a side note, I'd be teasing her the whole time like "Aww, that's so sweet (and really f*cked up, LOL, you're a "little" stripper so you think all guys must just love you and will walk 500 miles for you. How's that fantasy world working out for you? (etc.)[/i]

Having taken a stripper on a date and knowing multiple roommates who have also this is an interesting situation. Strippers are women, but all the ones I've seen have been eager to please on dates. Just be normal cocky funny, if she likes you she will play into you more obviously then most girls. IDK if it deals with them meeting normal guys outside of the club and wanting a normal guy or something, but the strippers I've encountered have been fun and seem to be interested in everything that you say.

The bad thing is they all had (this is like 4 different stripper girls btw) emotional issues, not necessarily from stripping, but maybe it led to it. So don't jump the gun on who she is, she might be a good person though.

Take lots of $1Yen bills.

Of course I'm kidding. If you want to get her in bed, you need to make sure and not act needy. Be an alpha and like someone mentioned above - definitely believe and act that she's the fortunate one to be out w/ you. This has worked well for my friends here in the US. Can't account for cultural differences...

my opinion would be just treat her like a normal HB

a stripper is just trained to work the game on you so remember that when you use your own game goodluck!

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-moony

i'm assuming you're an expat and she's local... it's a totally different ballpark whether or not people are mentioning that she's just a woman. also be aware of cultural norms and language barriers. good luck.