Some Issues for Me:

1. I am not ripped. I am actually pretty skinny. I am 17 and about 6 foot but only about 140 pounds. I know that stuff does not matter to girls, but it is messing with my self esteem cause I feel smaller and insignificant. Any help for my view here other than hitting the gym? I just tend to feel as if I have to prove myself to the girls instead of making them prove something to me.

2. I am too considerate. A lot of times, I worry that I will bug her or be annoying and distract her from her work. Just the other day there was an empty seat next to this girl who was studying on her laptop, so I asked if it was open. She said I could sit there and I said something along the lines of, "thanks, it would have been a douche move not to let me." got out a laugh and then commented on how weird everyone around us was (ALL very nerdy). Then she turned back to computer and I did not want to disrupt her anymore. I know this is a common feeling, but it happens to me a LOT. Its not so much they wont like me but Im worried they have more important things and I'd be interrupting their day.

3. Worried I won't do Kino correctly. With girls I know well, it is REAL easy for me cause I'm a goofy guy. but it feels weird to me to just randomly reach over and hug a girl I just met etc.

alrighty guys, here are some of my main troubles please help me out!

Hey Roadblkx,
Im gonna number my responses:

1. You ruled out the gym in your post, which before i got to that point would have been where i would angle you towards.
However, it seems that you arent happy in the skin you are in, work on it man, really. You MUST be confident in yourself, gym aside, i suggest you figure out a famous person who has a similar physique as you and copy their style, odds are they have had all sorts of people telling them whats best for them. Copy it but not to the point where you are not comfortable.

2. This is something that alot of us had, you got to rip that part out when you are running game. Cocky funny is the way to be. They do not have more important things to do, keep the mindset; you are making their day great, you bring fun whereever you go, they WANT you to talk to them. you can be cheeky as long as you smile! the quote you put about sitting, i bet you had a huge smile for that and rightly so!

3. Do Kino appropriate to what stage you are at;
the start is playful not sexual, then progress.
10min audio here http://www.lovesystems.com/audio , well worth listening to and buying if you can (listen to the free 10min on Vol 11) Sinn and the Don are gods
hope its ok to recommend these audios mods (rule 7. No advertising without explicit permission from the site owner), if not, please delete this bit.

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