I have a girl who i have closed, who is always down to hang out when i invite her, but never really texts me first to ask me what im doing, which im used to. Any advice on making her be the one to start the convos?

hey men i have a post check it out its fun openers and things like that. witch makes u b fun wail texting. and your problem is that you are not being fun ! and play full (attractive) text her with fun openers and make her be attractive to you .

I have the same problems. She's attracted and invited herself over and f-closed but she just doesn't seem to like texting. I'd like to know an answer to this too

Hi guys, here is my take on texting.

I avoid, and i will explain why, all types of technilogical mediums of talking. In other words, i keep texting, emailing, instant messaging to a minimum. I even avoid talking on the phone;although, this is the best among all of these options.

My reason for this is the loss of voice, body language, and kino.
1)When talking via any of these mediums, save phone, your tone is VERY hard to convey without sounding over-exagerated - which is still not the best (you want to seem calm and level headed, not extreme)
2) It is IMPOSSIBLE to convey alpha-male body language when using ANY of these mediums, which greatly reducest the amount of attraction she physically can feel for you.
3) KINO! One of the most important aspects of game, is completely lost in technilogical talking, or techno-talking. Go ahead and try to grab a girl's hand, touch her waist, poke, or put your arm around her over texting. I dare you. lol

So my final word is that i would be less concerned with if she texts me back or not, as i would be about the loss of attractin she feels for me because of texting.
I call or text (and i usually call, to take care of the tonal problem) only when i am setting up the next date with her.

Happy Gaming!
-Saint P

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Hey Saint, love your insight. It really help me understand some things.

But I was wondering, doesn't the attraction die down if you don't keep in contact with her other than to inform her of dates? Although I admit if you can keep her on a high point the last time you talk with her and only do so rarely it may actually amplify the attraction. . . Well I'm still kind of confused about this point. Care to shed some more light?

Gracias and god bless, amigo.

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I agree with saint i dont like texting, but it has to be done. When you text its just like a opener say something intresting that gets her thinking(it doesnt have to be anything crazy or random) but dont say (hey, wats up?) U have to do better than that.

Absolutely my pleasure!

like i said, if i were to talk to a girl, not in person, id keep it to phone or video chat, but yes somtimes tech-talking is neccesary.

oh i almost forgot! theoverall reason i dont techtalk, is without kino escalation ,it becomes the highway to friend-zone...

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spare some rep? lol

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True that. . . Thanks for helping me understand this real crucial point. Though some of the stuff now seems foolish when I think about it, at least I've got a better idea of how this thing works and won't make the same mistake again. Thanks guys!

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lol my question still stands, i asked her about it and she said if a guy likes a girl he will text her if he wants to see her, i tried to not text her last night but when other plans fell through i invitd her over

Well it seems you already have a connection with her. Wat I was sayin is when biulding a connection you wanna meet face to face and limit text. You still wanna keep the texting to a min cause you dont wanna fall in the friend zone. This doesnt mean dont text her like i said you have 2 text its just how r society is now adays. Dont ever text her just 2 text.When you text her you should be asking her to come over or meet up in some way. Hope this helps you man.

Well did she come over or not?

Vin DiCarlo has a great solution to make the texting more interesting. He uses the " loop " texting ( i give an example later on ) but here is few ideas for text openers you can use to create intrigue and get a response:
- Whoa, something just reminded of you today
- OMG- reminded of you today, saw someone with same energy, comes from the same place
- O my god what have i done ( when she answes back you can say something funny like you drink tea instead of coffee or something like that )
- Suprise!
- OMG so right about you. Just got off the phone w ( this text message is cut off intentionally so she can text back that what happened )

If you want to know more, send a private message.
All those examples above are origanally by Vin DiCarlo.

[ Johnny B ]

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I've tried all those great text openers and it works but she takes half hour to text back or she'll respond with something lame. Maybe texting just isn't her thing, you know?

But I appreciate the suggestions man

of course however im used to waiting for girls to text me what im doing,,,,, whatever though im good at leading