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PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 1:36 am 
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Hi guys. There is this girl from work who I really like. We will call her HB.



I work at place with a lot of 16-19 year old babes (I'm 18 ) and I have run some game at work. Many of the girls there are giving me constant IOI's. I haven't actually tried to pick any of the up; I just act unaffected, good body language, C+F, and not needy. So anyways, I met HB (she is 16) but we didn't have much time to talk. But one day we got off at the same time and talked for like 15 mins on the bus to the parking lot. I got her number and I thought it went well (she was playing with her hair and looking back at me). I texted her twice but both times she seemed uninterested, and she would only reply one or two words. So then I stopped texting her anymore. I would talk to her at work when I saw her and stuff tho.

A couple of weeks passed by and a bunch of my friends from work and I went to a haunted house. It was about 20-25 people in total. We had a great night. So the next day at work, most of us in the dispatch office were talking about it. A couple of my friends decided to go again. I didn't really want to go since I had lots of homework and it was Sunday. So a little later, I am walking down the hallway with my AFC friend (he's real needy) and we saw her. He approached her and asked her to go to the haunted house with them. She said maybe.

When I returned to the dispatch office, she was sitting there. She asked me i was was going to the haunted house. I told her i wasn't sure because i had to go to school the next day (she didn't). This time the group of people was only around 10. This other girl (OG) who is her friend also kept asking if i was going. HB was there and saw several girls giving me IOI's. We left around 9:30. We were talking and she said that she saw a pictures of me with shorter hair on my AFC buddy's facebook. I know exactly which picture she is talking about because I only once ever took pictures with him. These pictures involved two of my hot (girl)friends with my arms around them. She kept saying "you should go" about the haunted house. So i decided to go. Me, HB, and OG each had a car but we decided to go with HB's car. I had the back seat to myself cos OG had already taken shotgun when i got in her car. So there were two other cars we we following because we didn't know how to get there and it was far.

SO NOW THE REAL STORY BEGINS...

She was driving all good and everything, until she rear ended my AFC friend who we were following. It was a slight fender bender at 20 mph, but she got very scared. Her car wasn't damaged, just the license plate was bent. We separated from the other cars and got lost. She was worried about what the AFC was going to be mad, but i talked to him and he was fine. So long story short- by the time we found our way back to our friends, and got to the haunted house, it was closed (she blamed herself). We we driving around for a while and i noticed that she kept looking in her rear view mirror almost every time she said something, maybe to see my reaction? She also mentioned how she always sees this one girl give me massages. One car went home so us and the other car went to a 24 restaurant. In the other car was another male (OM) and his girl and her friend.

We sat three people on each side of a rectangular table, with me sitting in between the two girls i was in the car with. HB had her body facing diagonally at the opposite corner of the table (while her chair was facing straight), with her leg touching mine. She asked if that bothered me but i said no so she stayed like that nearly throughout the whole dinner.

Then she drove me and the other girl to our cars. We must pass a security checkpoint before we get to the parking lot. Some old perv officer was like "whats it like to get a ride to work from two angels like this?" to me (it was 3 am). I said some shit and he was like "too bad you in the back by youself." I told him "it keeps me safe from them" and the all laughed. so we drop the other girl off; i didn't bother jumping in the front seat for the 30 secs it was going to take her to drop me off. Then before i got out i told her that it wasn't her fault about what happened and that i still had fun. I told her to drive safe and we did a fist pound. Then i got out. As i was walking to my car, she rolls her window down to joke with me. What sucked about this is there was virtually no kino (besides the leg thing) since she was driving and i was in the back seat. I touched her should several times to calm her down after the accident, but that was it. I had a 30 min drive home and when i got there, i noticed she had texted me saying "thanks for not letting me freak out and everything tonight." I haven't texted back. I am not interested in starting another pointless text convo that will most likely lead nowhere.

I will see her again on the weekend and we might attempt to go to the haunted house again. How should I act with this girl. I want a LTR with her, not just to sleep with her. She already said she was a virgin in front of me in the car, and that she is waiting to fall in love before she does it.

Please share you thoughts guys.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:13 am 
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Wow! dude your post is AMAZING.

First thing is that your friend may be a nerd now, but in 10 years he will be your strongest assest. Respect him.

2nd thing. The girl is probably insecure in her driving abilities, and worried you might not like her. Most girls are very insecure. I even think that the more attractive they are the more insecure they are.

I think you should text her back and tell her what you want to say. I know you want a long term relationship with her, but you might have a hard time if you are not able to be comfortable around her. Stop thinking about what happened in the past. Don't compair yourself to how others acted, and don't judge yourself for having fear. Everyone is scared of rejection and their is nothing wrong with that.

The girl is into you, and no matter what you do -- be cool. Cool means to allow yourself to be vulerable. Make her feel safe and comfortable and be O.K. with how you are. That is all that you need to do. Text her back when she text you. Don't remember bad past experiences. Try to move on.

Sincerely,
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:36 am 
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i stopped reading when i read she is 16... dude dont touch, even if your 18 i wouldnt go for it. Shes attracted to you because your older. lol


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