Hey guys

So basicaly my life is pretty good at the mo, got my course in college, playing sports etc. and it all should be good except my lack of game is ruining it all.

I just cant step it up with girls. I can create attraction over long periods of time but I cant create a spark in a few minutes witha girl, especially in clubs.

My dancing is ruining me. I'm no fun. I know you guys will just say "let go" etc but i cant. I dont know the lyrics of the songs and all the other guys have specific dances for songs and they interact with the girls on the dancefloor while I just do the one robotic movement for every song and it looks really weird.This is destroying my confidence with irls, even when im not dancing as I fear i may have to later etc.

The whole PU thing is getting me down because everything else in my life is going so smoothly. I havent kissed a girl in over a year. Im afraid to make a move for the fist time in case i get shot down and get a bad rep or seem despeate. Nobody suspects how desperate i am. I need to get this going guys, please help.

Then don't dance.

There is a gazillion other opportunities to pick up girls...

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ya but sometimes all my friends are dancing and idont know anyone else so i have no choice. Also its something id like to sort out so im okay at it, and i will feel confident about it if i have to do it.

Say I dont dance and im in the smoking area with a girl. Do i basically just tease and ramp kino for the kiss?