dance game, got some digits...how to esculate?



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 3:05 pm 
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Hey guys, first timer ;)

I've been reading up on the game for a little while now though have never really bothered to try it out, so ended up following my friend along to some dance club (for 4 weeks in a row). Pretty much his a natural when i comes to dance game, he can almost never be bothered with anything past that so his never much help...

Out of these 4 weeks i've been there i got digits 3 of the times and really only bothered to talk to two of them, as such started talking to this girl that i got with friday week ago and met meet her the week before (of which i got with her friend but she doesn't know that =] ). So i msged her the day after asked her "how she pulled up" and started txting to and fro from there.
Initally for the first 3 days i had to somewhat chase her so i started getting sick of it and waited it out for her response, when it finally came (24 hours later) i responded or w/e then called her the following night and she didn't pick up, so i was like w/e...
get a text from her back 5 mins later saying she was at dinner and can't talk anyway cause she has some 'lavitis' or something that practially takes her voice away. text to and fro for a bit again then wait for it on the weekend and get another text from her saying like how was my night and "fyi my voice is back..." giving me an invitation to call her? It was a saturday night so i wait till sunday call her up talk crap for just under 30 mins and i cut it off there before we had anymore awkward silences.
The issue is that since that night (last sunday) i havn't had a msg or anything from her yet and i wasn't really able to esculate it over that conversation as im still pretty bad at phone game. I'm thinking about calling her thursday night and trying to set up a day2 for sunday or something, but im not 100% whether i can do it or even if it is a good idea. So, suggestions anyone? Average at the game and i understand the basic principles behind almost every subject of it, but not so good at applying them and making DHV stories to tell over the phone to ask them out on a date right after =\


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 13, 2009 6:35 pm 
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dont txt her so much, dont have long conversations like that. and always let her be the last one to reply. period.

dont txt her with questions (this conveys needyness)....rather encourage a reply in a subtle manner

dont speak for 30min on the phone. make it short and sweet...phone call should simply serve to setup next meeting. as you saw you blew it on the phone by speaking for too long.

dont DHV on the phone, do this when you first meet her.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 1:26 am 
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Thing is that this girl is still only 18 so she hasn't been shown the big wide world of dating yet (and she went to an all girls school) and i kind of wanted to see if i could make it work, i still think i have quite a big chance and i know that this is only one of many that i could go for but nevertheless, would you have any advice from where to go from here with this sheila? Else I'll probably root it up more...
From what you said yea thats good ideas for when i do go for another follow up, but when do you think this next follow up should seriously come by?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 6:12 am 
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give it a few days and then start it up again.

18 yrs old....yup, they can be extremely tough. i find younger girls a lot harder to game than older girls...they are unpredictable as they themselves are confused about where they are and what they want. they have SOLID game without even knowing it and can confuse the shit out of you. they are naturally unneedy and have resistance because of their lack of experience, sometimes the age gap becomes an issue too (happened in my last case).

older women are more accustomed to being 'picked up'. they know what they want and they know how it works. much easier to read, they just follow the rules with no complications.


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yer but im 19, so its all good ;)
i got in with a 22 year old last week, was awkward when i tried to follow it up though, just being below '20' factor makes you sound young and in most cases i like that, though sometimes it can be a bit of a needle in the back


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 7:38 am 
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yer but im 19, so its all good ;)
i got in with a 22 year old last week, was awkward when i tried to follow it up though, just being below '20' factor makes you sound young and in most cases i like that, though sometimes it can be a bit of a needle in the back
ah well no excuses then mate! ;) let us know how it gos


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IMO at such early stages the texting/phone calls should be kept to a minimum amount needed to gain a day 2.

You lose half your arsenal over the phone not to mention talk about stuff which could have been talked about on the day 2 making it harder to find new stuff to talk about.

Thats not to say you should straight up for a day 2 without buttering up with a few flirty texts that don't really talk about anything mind.


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turns out, she msged me today saying how much of a drainer her last year school revison is and how its killing her life, then asked if i was going back to the club where we met (cause i've been there the last 4 weeks) and shes sick of it...

so i called her when i got home from work 3 hours later and cut it down to an 8 minute ramble about crap, kind of asked her out on sunday and turned it into a joke, so i don't know if its going ahead, more waiting on my message in a couple of days to clarify what i was going to ask her :/
see how it goes in a couple of days with some canned material for asking girls out in msgs...


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