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Thanks Everybody.
I have more studies to do.
I need to read up on AMOGing.
Alootttt more.
Most material on AMOGING is just really terrible. It's confrontational, immature, and makes others feel uncomfortable. This in turn makes YOU feel uncomfortable and confrontational.
Although analogies are made with the animal kingdom and some of it does apply, we are NOT lions, horses, or baboons; we're men. We don't establish alpha positions by killing others and their offspring. And we certainly don't establish our positions by throwing our fecal matter all over the place. But this is EXACTLY what many would lead you to believe. Many advocate playground taunts and insults. Some even advocate forms of intimidation. This is just ridiculous.
I would like to believe that most MEN are able to progress and adapt to different environments. What made you the "cool kid" during recess in 5th grade won't help you too much in the business environment. And what makes the soldier respectable on the battlefield won't help much in a nigh club. Being alpha is a mindset but the actions that demonstrate that mindset must change according to the environment.
So . . .in regards to the "night club" environment, everybody here seems to be on the mark. Night clubs are all about fun interactions. The guy who is social and has a lot of fun IS THE ALPHA MAN. "Just doing it" makes you alpha. Disregarding negativity and being positive makes alpha. Being ON the dance floor makes you alpha. All that you need is right here in this thread and you've already achieved the first step. You knew what you wanted and you managed to step on to the floor.
Leave the neanderthals to their "yo momma jokes", stare downs, put downs, and smack downs. These unintelligent kids will play the same act at work, in the class room, to their parents, etc . . .
You're a man who's going to a club, not a baboon figuring out where to stand in line for rancid piece of meat . . . Just go out and HAVE FUN. If anything, work on gaming girls . . . that's the fun part.