I am going to a HUGE public university this fall.. about 30, 000 students. Do the same social circles stand here, or is it just so big that you won't recognize too many people and will always be meeting new people? how should I approach it differently since it is so large?

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applies everywhere

I am talking about regarding the social circles...

Thanks, iv pretty much realised that college is all about the social scene, however I do feel that the core principles of attraction and comfort stays the same. But enough of my opinions, im going to test direct and then improve from there.

Where are you going? I'm at penn state.

And the rules are a bit different...you should still focus on creating a good social circle but there will always be ways to meet new people, and you can practice your game on random girls without having to worry about too many repercussions. You won't really be able to get a reputation with the entire campus so "social status" is only a concern within a social circle. Social circle game should still be utilized but you can definitely use some traditional pickup methods...just be direct, don't use opinion openers, don't be afraid to get a little drunk at parties; some might say it's a crutch but people will judge you if you don't drink.

And you will run into people you recognize quite often even if it's a large campus...if you're not making an effort to hang out with someone you'll probably see the person about once a week assuming they don't live near your dorm.

Hey exhumed.

whats up bro I am also at Penn state and I totally agree with you on your post. It is tough to get a reputation with 40,000 people and around 20,000 girls lol.

I think its a lot easier to party with a common crowd and build connections downtown.

Its too awkward and tough to really make a strong pickup in the Paterno library or even the HUB

What are your thoughts. What are some of the pickup methods you recommend for a setting such as the library

I am in my first semester at PSU but I am a junior transfer.

So I'm a month into university in UK and have been ill on and off ending up in hospital, is it too late to meet people and get a better status?

So I'm a month into university in UK and have been ill on and off ending up in hospital, is it too late to meet people and get a better status?

Good Informational post

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not gonna lie zcoreman, i think getting girls at the library is tacky. i have a bunch of good looking cousins im pretty close with and i hear about all these guys that approach them in the library and never heard a story of a succesful one, just them bitching about these guys. granted, i once got a dinner date and a great hookup from the only girl i ever hit on in a library before i even knew what the game was, but even she remarked at how guys approached her there and she didnt really like it (confusing much?).

library game-- if you come in there giving them a little bit of a break from studying with some fun talk there not going to blow you out, if you do it seeking an outcome you prolly wont make to much headway

catch eye contact, smile, open with "gotta love studying..... ask her what shes studying for blah blah blah, fluff talk, then say well hey you seem like a pretty smart girl, lets hang out sometime when were not in the library, #close, day2 fclose...got em ----done it before

not to mention meeting girls daygame style less flaky then meeting them at college parties


to felix its never to late to meet people, you just talk to people, end up finding some parties to go to on the weekend and continue making friends there


zcoreman, nothing is awkward unless you make it awkward, you see a cute girl at the library and you want to talk to her you do it, i doubt shes gonna blow you out at the library with a stop bothering me, if your getting the vibe she doesent want to talk eject


roadblkx- you would be suprised at how many people actually know each other, i go to ohio state which has the one of the biggest campuses and im doing things with girls and turns out these girls know these people and so on and so forth

All im saying is social game still applies the bigger social circle you have the better, and also make sure you dont get a bad rep because its hard to shake it

at the same time dont worry about gaming random girls just be direct and try to make friends, everyone is pretty open to friendship, especially in college

So glad I checked out this thread

Thought I'd share a bit of my story with you guys

I go to Fanshawe College in south-western Ontario. I'm in it's flagship program - Broadcast Journalism. It's also known as the best party college in the province - no argument here.

My first day of class, my prof. asked 2 people to stand up and be interviewed about their lives. I quickly jumped on that opportunity and told everyone my life story. After this, the class had to write a feature report on me and the other girl who presented. It turns out that because I have a (although not very noticeable) speech impediment and I'm in a broadcasting program, people find me inspirational.

I gained instant popularity from this. I got my story out there and made sure to convey the fact that I was very unpopular in elementary school, was an asshole in highschool and was heartbroken coming into college. It allowed everyone to view me on a very human level.

In the past, I'll be honest, I've been a very shallow person. I did not talk to people or associate with them if I found them sexually unattractive. This changed for me in college. I have a close group of friends (the popular guys/girls) but I hang out with everybody.

In my program, we run 4 different radio stations from the Newsroom in the college. It's fairly intense. I always make sure to greet all of my classmates in a friendly way 'hey whats goin on brother?' ..or to the ladies 'hey hun whats up? ' when we see eachother in the newsroom or class.

I'm also the life of the party. I hosted a mixer at my place and it went off without a hitch. I'm seeing the hottest girl in the program and I got this opportunity due to an incredible amount of social proof.

At the end of my first semester, I am LOVING college. Do you watch a TV series regularly and one day you think 'man, this is the best fucking episode of this show i've ever seen!!' - that's what my life feels like. every day.

Here is my advice:

- Work HARD on your AMOGing. This is essential. Be a dominant social force. Always contribute in class and attend regularly. You cannot be seen if you are not visible, correct?

- Be friends with everyone. Exclude no one. The advice about knocking on everyone's doors in Residence is gold. Meet as many people as possible. Go out of your way to help people in your program. Whether it's driving them places if you have a car, helping them with their homework or w/e, it will not be forgotten.

- Avoid making enemies at all costs. They will try their damndest to bring you down. I called out 2 girls in class this semester who are the enemies of my entire program and was lauded as a hero and a people's champ for it, but you have to pick your battles very carefully. This is the best way to be a 'bad boy' in your program and use it to DHV.

- Try to look your best every day. I'm a good looking guy, I dress well and I always make sure to be wearing cologne and chewing juicy fruit. Brush your teeth as often as humanly possible. The idea is to turn heads and catch eyes.

- Get involved. Join a club or do something extra-cirricularly. I host a weekly radio hockey show. It's a great way to meet people and DHV.

- Try to create an identifiable style for yourself. For an example..I wear a black New Era hat with 'KID ROCK'N' on it, a cow skull belt buckle, black wifebeater, black dress shirt, black jeans and cowboy boots. The idea, as always, is to stand out in the mind of HB's. My style does this. Find your own and accentuate it.

- Do not be intimidated by HB's. Talk to them. I never would've gotten with the girl I am with - she has a enormous FUCK OFF sign on her forehead - if I had wussed out and not talked to her.


This thread has been great so far guys. Let's keep it going.

BE A SOCIAL FORCE!!

hey, just wondering if height is an issue in the 'uni game'. i'm just under 5ft 8 inches. And it seems like height is a thing girls particularly go for, i know alot of girls are shorter anyways but if they tend to go for taller guys could it significantly shorten my chances of closing or is there ways around this, for example if i follow all the advice in this thread will i be able to close on the girl rather than her going for a 6ft tall guy with know knowledge of PU and DHVs etc?

Yes, you can!

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how do you be the life of the party i need examples......

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