Hello.. I admit I am new to this and a bit scared. I have never had much success with women. I have attracted some pretty hot women but never been able to maintain a healthy happy relationship and usually wind up getting dumped.
Recently I have fallen on hard economic time having been laid off and do not have much money. I am a professional jazz musician and play rather frequently but was still recently dumped because I don't have a lot of money.

I am 28 and introverted for the most part, but not a total recluse. I HAVE ZERO GAME when it comes to approaching women and being interesting in social situations and am looking to improve my life, get some stability and not have what has happened to me countless times (dumped) happen again if I can help it.

I see the type of guys on these sites and envy what they have and really am inspired to improve myself as a human being. PLEASE HELP!!

Practice practice practice... Reading, study, and learn as much as you can.

Read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" to introduce you to understanding the female mindset. Try your best to learn how to communicate with the opposite sex. In particular, learn from sources that are made by women, for women. Watch and analyze chick flicks- thousands of women watch chick flicks for a good reason.

Don't let failure bother you. Try to relax and have fun.

Remember that this process is about you improving yourself, not you learning things that get women. Focus on improving who you are and resolving issues of your identity, and the success with women will follow.

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@Jmhagman :

For one, you have done considerably better than me, as I have yet to have a "real" girlfriend, let alone attract a beautiful woman (without pressure from her friends)...

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