okay, here's the deal....

friday nite me and my wing went out to a local club. he ended up pulling a hb6. I didn't bother talking to any girls cuz they're was none there that caught my attention. so, i ended up leaving around 1:30 a.m. I got home and turned on my computer to check my face book.

now, this is where it gets weird. I have a.i.m on my computer but, i never sign on or use it. For some strange i signed on. so, i went about checking my face book and myspace. Then, i got an instant message from some one i didn't kno. The screen name was apparently a girls. It said "good night everyone, i'll talk to you all later". I was like "who da fuck is this". so, i messaged her back saying "who is this?".

She told me her name and asked me who i was and how i got her screen name. I told her my name and that she was that messaged me. so, after a lil goin back and forth trying to figure out who's who. she sent me sum pictures of herself. And i was speechless. She was a hb12! and i sent her a few pics of me. we talked for a lil while longer b4 i sent her my number.

we talked til 4 a.m on the phone before we called it a nite. i was really weird tho. cuz, we both really connected. it was almost like we knew each other already. the next day i texted her. her's the convo..

Me: wuts poppin homie?
her: nm u?
me: taking a space shuttle to moon. u wanna go? lol
her: lol
me: yo, my friends just bought a projector. we're gonna have a fire n watch a movie 2nite. u down?
her: i'm out with my mom today our first day off together in months
me: aite, hit me up later then
her:don't u think we should talk more first anyways
me: haha yur rite..for all i know you could be a serial killer
her: shut up!
me: lol

End of convo

any ideas on how i should play this one out?..i'm trying not to fuck this one up lol

First, you need to not give a shit if you fuck it up. Seriously, who cares if you do? There are millions of chicks on this planet, what makes her so special that you cant find one just as good if not better?

If you're worried about fucking it up you will do things wrong. You have to be indifferent and not attached to any set outcome.

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Rent a chick flick man!

Women love fate. You got lucky that a random hot chick messaged you- use it to your advantage! Play up the mystique of fate bringing you two together. Don't go too fast pushing for a close with her. You have her interest already just by the way you two met. Take your time, go point by point, and build attraction. If I were you I would message her randomly and say, "I just can't help but think that there was a reason we connected. I would love to get to know you. Want to get coffee at [X time, X place]?"

Women are fed on a steady diet for years on movies, books, etc. that show them that one day Mr. Right will fall into their lap, they will meet randomly, connect and find out how *meant for eachother* they are, and live happily ever after. You have the opportunity to create that in your HB12's mind.

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true..true...i could use the idea of fate leading us together...although i don't wanna push to hard for a date. i already tried asking her out and was unsucessfull. which i understand why. and thats cuz, i still really haven't struck a real good connection with her......but, the last three dates i set up i ended up fucking up because i either came across as to pushy or boring. so, i trying to play my cards rite this time and learn from my mistakes. thats y i'm turning to you guys for advice.