First time going to this new spot.
Wish me luck!
I hope everybody has a great weekend.

Hmm.
Im Definitely better at night game.

Chuckle... what happened dude? Surely things couldn't have been too bad! Was it too much approach anxiety? AMOG-ing everywhere? Crashing and burning all the time?

Yeah, what happend? It couldnt be so bad ?

_________________
True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

As a college student, I find myself running club and party game on the weekends... just out of curiosity, I'd like to know what went wrong as well.

_________________
"Vincit Qui Se Vincit"

IT WAS SO WEIRD!
There was alot of amazing good looking girls dancing but about 100 creppy guys standing around the dance floor.
I was like what the hell are they doing?
It made me feel extremely uncomfortable.
To the point that i didn't even want to try.
It was scaryy.

Zeabra! What happened buddy? Rite lets hear a propper "non-lay report" and we will all chip in advice. Most of your posts are good mate you know your stuff. What prep did you do before the night? Need info chief then Saint is at hand, no worries.

Peace out, Saint

_________________
Attraction is the insatiable desire to be irresistibly desired

Haha a Non-lay report?
Alright alright fine.
I went out pretty happy that i was finally getting out. Dress up. Do my hair.
Yadda yadda i get to the spot and its really empty!
Im like i came out to this?! (My sister suggested it was the spot to be on Saturday.)
It was empty for about 2 hours. Blah.
So my sister and her boyfriend get in a fight so i go outside to play peace maker.
And when i get back in there is about 50 hot girls dancing!
I was like alright.
Let me go and approach.
As Im walking i notice that there are about 100 guys circling the dance floor like hungry lions.

I was about the only guy out on the DANCE floor! (yes its called a dance floor because you dance on it guys come on!)
So I was totally ready but those guys just staring there made me feel so uncomfortable.
I couldnt even approach i felt like if they saw me get rejected it would make me have low value.

I realized later after i left that i was high value for at least being on the floor.
Gosh what a bust night.
Like i cant believe i felt AA because of a whole bunch of squares.
That was the first time i truly felt uncomfortable in a social environment.

But would you guys feel that way too?

Na dude you shoulda said "fuck it" who cares what the other dudes think even if you wouldve got blown out it wouldve been all good deff not a DLV its better to be the guy who at least tryed then just stood around and did nothing like the rest. But who cares right? short memory buddy every new day is a clean slate next time no Doubt.

I agree with you.
But it was the first time i was there.
And i was not prepared for that!
A like battalion of guys watching your every move!

Makes sense. but thats the beauty of new places, you really have no rep that you need to keep up so you shouldnt have cared. one of the greatest things ive ever heard came frm PUA Alex he said, critisism is the cheapest commodaty anyone can critisis you and everyday everyone does and because critisism is so easily obtainable it really has no value and means nothing. (idk if that makes sense but basically never care what others think)

That is by far the best advice i have gotten.
Thank you E.

No prob : )

Lol yea i mite keep using that phrase!

Rite first thing buddy is you need to get pumped for night game. You need to lift your intencity. A club and pub scene has a naturaly more upbeat life style. During the day its easyer because everyone is more chilled and more mellow so when you come in you are naturaly interesting. Night game is different because the start is different.

Bummer about the spot being empty at the start but the more you sarge the more you get to know where to go. It also sucks that you had to play peace maker. However if you did it well it raises your social value as you look like a collected, smart and caring guy. Aslong as your intencity doesnt drop, it could help.

Rite dancefloor game is a whole new tier in the Game. Its something ive failed and failed and failed, till i found what worked for me. Try to push the other guys out your mind, you are the most important male in there, every woman wants you and every male wants to be you. Your a PUA(In Training). A rejection would lower slight value as, you hope, everyone wants to come over and is therefor paying attention. However if you open right and play your mid game ok, a rejection can look like a kind goodbye or see you later, which mearly frees you up in other womens minds.

I personaly open a few sets in a few bars before i go to my target bar as it does three things;

1. Gets rid of approach anxiety early as you have opened early in the night. Meaning ive approached possibly 5 or 6 times before you are seeing the type of women you realy want.

2. It gives the possibility of warm sets at your final destination(Such as a club or open late pub) You can arrange to meet girls at a later time. This can help with your social value and give you a boost in the next spot.

3. It lets you try many different things as you arn't bothered about your rep in that place, because you dont intend to stay for more than one or two drinks. You can stick to what is working that night or keep trying new stuff.

Anything else your interested in give me a shout

Peace out Saint

_________________
Attraction is the insatiable desire to be irresistibly desired

Thank you Saint!
This is the first time i have actually gotten some real advice instead of that
"Just get over it." advice.
I truly appreciate you helping me out.
Practice makes perfect.
Next weekend Im going to a club where i already k-closed a girl the first time i was there (Hows that for night game aye?)
Anyways i already have High Social value there because i know the owner and the DJs.
Next weekend should be amazing!
Thank you all for your advice!