You know i have been rolling this around in my head for awhile.
What if you could be a gentleman while still being open sexually.

Is this possible?
And yes i know this is two conflicting ideas.

This is crazy, why would these two be conflicting?

Look at James Bond as a very good example!

A gentleman if anyone is open sexually! A creepy AFC with nothing but sex on his mind is afraid to talk about sex, this makes him nervous.

But a confident PUA or a gentleman who is comfortable in his sexuality and has other things on his mind would have no problem talking and acting openly about sex.

I don't even understand how you could come up with such a crazy idea that they would conflict!

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Talking about sex is just odd. Very American. I grew up in Socal and never got it even back then. Too many of you guys worship sex and broads. That is why "Commercial PUA" is only heard of in places like America/Britain. I think those cultures have some real issues with sex.

Agreed

Sex is a normal behavior, I don't understand the prude view some people have about it.
There is no way in hell you are gonna be able to have great sex with your partner if you can't talk about it!
And talking about sex with someone you haven't had sex with is also a good way to create a comfort zone and make sure you are both on the same level.
A good PUA should be very comfortable with sex!

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Well, to be honest, as a virgin I'm probably a tad bit uncomfortable talking about it......Hell, the last time I almost lost it, I was nervous as fuck about doing it....

This is why I start talking about sex pretty much as early as I can in the interaction with a HB, usually within 5-10 minutes of meeting her.
Like I mentioned earlier, it shows confidence, it shows that sex is natural for you and that you are comfortable with it.
This is attracive for women, they want a man who knows what he is doing in bed, who knows how to please her and doesn't think that her cervix is a penis (see "vagina question" post )

If you have talked a lot about sex when you finally have her secluded everything will be much more natural and the pressure will decrease!

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Slywalker

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Yeah!
James Bond Style!
Thats exactly ehat i was going for!

.....and this is where I fucking lose, for obvious reasons...

I lost my virginity when i was 14.

I had zero skill or information about anything when I first lost my virginity but it happened and she didn't fall a sleep or complain lol

However, I never looked into books about "how to be a better lover" or anything like that.. So I don't know how much you can learn from books without hands on experience, but it could be worth a shot!

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Slywalker

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Well, I mean that while yeah, I've never fucked, I have quite a bit of experience BUT what I'm talking about is if they find out I'm a virgin, they're gonna start making assumptions and then NOT want to be with me.

I want a full guide on how to be a Gentleman and a pua.
Like a hybrid.
If anybody out there could write one i would be totally Stoked!

I'm pretty sure Ian Fleming has written several!

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No Way!
Seriously Im going to loook that up right now.