Hey Guys! I Pulled a girl from my favoret bar. I took her on a day two, filled with banter lafter and stories. We made out and had lots of heavy petting. She even put my hands down her shirt. I thought i was in there till we pulled up and my roomate was hanging outside smoking when we got to my house,then she went home. Two days later I saw her at the same bar and she litterally said two words to me the whole night. Her roomates were all excited to meet me like she had talked about me, but she didnt even look my way. I guess I dissplayed some needyness by hanging around them, and i bought some shots 4 them trying to get the covorsation going( I know, rookie mistakes). But i thought I was in there. What could have gone wrong....


I did however retaliate the next night by gaming every girl in the bar the next thursday( Its dollar beers evrey thursday). I danced with like 3 diffrent girls right infront of her. They were all over me. Will this help or hurt me, in my chances. The only reason I care is this is my first aisan. MY FIRST AISIAN!!! If anyone has any answers let me know.

"MY FIRST ASIAN!" Hahah! Awesome!

Doin it with the friends was cool up until the buying of drinks. Def keep talking to her friends and maybe even get some numbers.... HBshit or not! It will keep her guessing how you could've moved on so fast.

Dancing with the other girls, GOOD! It also lets her know that you aren't afraid to move on and that you know that she isn't the only one out there. I just hope (For your sake) you didn't pay attention to her in any way while dancing and flirting with the other girls.

I gave her the occasional gaze, I didn't say a word to her. I don't know what her problem is. She tried to flirt with some random AFC, I think to piss me off. At that point it didn't matter I was dancing with three girls. However when do I try to talk to her again. I will be at the bar tonight. Some quick insight would be awesome.-Misfit

I wouldn't worry about it at all.....she doesn't sound all that great. If you keep giving her the attention, she's going to KNOW you still want her.

Remember, Once you're not afraid to lose something, it'll be a LOT easier to get!

sounds good. Thanks man

Dancing with other girls, great. Giving her an occasional glance while you're dancing with other girls? Shows that you need her attention. Needy is bad.

Buying a shot for the friends wasn't the bad move.... it was the motivation behind it. Trying to buy time with a drink is needy.

You can say hi and smile at her at the bar, after you've said hi and smiled to her friends. That's it. She should reopen you if you've pulled enough social proof and preselection in her face (the other women.)

The thing is, like mentioned before, you've got to be willing to let this one go, and mean it. That's the only way in hell she'd come back to you. And it's not about being mean... it's about being "pleasantly disinterested/busy."

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