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Ok, so I know there are certain things not to do because they make you seem insecure. For instance not putting your hands in your pockets, fidgeting or slouching.
Actually, a list of all those things you shouldn't do would be helpful...
But the real question here is what DO you do when standing? I mean, it's fine to keep your hands out of your pockets while walking or sitting or doing something, but what about when you're just standing there talking to a group of people.
So how should you stand, when just standing?
1. DONT LEAN TOWARD THE GIRL WHILE SPEAKING. Keep your back straight. ( I believe mystery highlights this pretty much )
2. If you are holdin a beer or some sort of drink in your hand, dont keep it high instead keep it low.
3. Use your hands while you speak ( i dont mean that wave them like a windmill ) . Demostrate what you are telling with small moves.
4. Stare right into her eyes while speaking. This demostrates confidence very well!
( if its a group of girls than try to make eye contact with everyone but less with your target )
[ Johnny B ]
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films etc.), watch them, pause and look for those moments.