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I'm a sixth form(college) student and i've had the worst month in my life, and i need someone's guidance...well an opinion from everyone could help
1. during the beginning of this month this random girl humiliated me in front of everyone. she touched me and said that she wants melol. She didnt say it because she liked me or anything but because she was trying to look good in front of her friends. (she has a boyfriend) this also happened today with some other girl(also has a boyfriend)
as a person i'm pretty quite and often seem to wonder of in my own little world lol, i look kind of nerdy however i do try to be normal just like everyone else and i'm average looking.
I just dont understand why girls have always done that to me, do they think i'm despearate? Are they despearate for attention and if so why am i the target?
sorry for the terribly structured paragraphs
Here is few tips that i would give you:
1. The way people threat you is relative to how you respect yourself. So concentrate on your self- esteem and learn who respect yourself.
For example: If there is a boy who has low self esteem and really thinks that he aint good at anything, how do you think that others woud honor him if he cant do it himself.
2. When you are not speaking, your bodylanguage tells alot about you. So concenrate to that allso!!
3. Smile! ( Notice: people who smile alot seems alot more confidence that the others that just look grim. )
4. Keep your head high and remember eye contact while speaking!
5. Dont apologize yourself. If they cant handle it, than f*** them.
So overall i would say you this:
Try to find a way how to improve those things that i just mentioned because when you reflect confidence and inner peace there is no way that any girl comes to mark you ( unless she is interested about you ). When you reflect inner confidence the others are around you will notice that and they start feeling comfortable as well!
Good way to start doing this life change is to adapt new outgoing life- style and just learning how to threat your body ( like going to the gym and playing sports etc ) When you feel and look good, who could resist you?
IT ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE AND WILL!
[ Johnny B ]