im a complete noob at the GAME. i started researching this PUA stuff a few days ago and didnt realize there was such promising routines. there's a girl im attracted to in one of my classes and i haven't said a word to her.

Dillemas:

• 1. only time i have the chance to speak to her would be after class or a whisper of a sentence or two during lecture. (NOTE: ive never spoken to her)
  2. difficult to get a seat right beside her. only got a seat RIGHT beside her once.
  3. first day of class she dropped her pen and i picked it up. she looked at me for like 3 secs smiled and said thank you (IOI?) this is the only contact after 10 classes (is it too late?)
  4. class meets 2 times a week (time bridge?)
  5. she always comes to class with her friend
  6. ive never approached anyone random before. no balls.
  7. i have no idea how to open. no idea how to continue after the opener.

yes ive read the forums and watched some of mystery's videos. im making this thread in order to get proper advice for my specific situation.

THANKS

Hmm.
This is a tricky one.
Waiting as long as you did might hinder this whole thing abit.
She may see you as lower value. She is thinking "Why does this guy like me but doesn't talk to me?"

Id let this one go for awhile.
Build up some value first.
Then come back you know?
Just my opinion.
I hope i helped out.

Hate to break it to you pal, but you just have to open!

Since she is your class and you see her all the time you have a perfect opportunity to start running an indirect game.

Try to be cool, just start talking to her after the class, it could be as simple as asking her what she thinks about the class, just use a sentence the first time and build some comfort, then just keep escalating it from class to class.
The important thing is that you break the ice by sayin something real to her!

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skywalker, you don't think it's too late to open? 10 classes have already gone by

thanks for the advice!

Its never too late, some girls are sitting there for class fter class hoping that you are gonna open and when you don't you simply create a tension. A tension tht you can turn in to your advantage.

The 3second rule is a recommendation not a rule really! Apply it on the street!

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what are a few recommended openers (for this situation)? keep in mind that she comes in and leaves with her friend. she always waits for her friend to pack up who takes forever for some reason

id like to have at least 3 openers in mind since ive never approached anyone random before

EDIT: i found this a similar thread about opening in a college classroom

a few people suggested opening with a NOTE(?).

example: she conveys boredom (a yawn or such) pass a note saying "bored?" with a tic-tac-toe box and an X in the middle. when she passes it back, draw 2 X's (playful cheating) and write "I just dominated you at tic tac toe. You suck! Smileyface"

if i found this out earlier it wouldve been a nice chance for me to break the ice because she did yawn

i really need more input on the note opener D: