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Oh and saying flat out "no" is one of the worst things to do.
Try to be witty, not boring.
I guess you're just another guy in the club.
Makes it easier for me to get girls when they come to me after having to deal with people like you.
I totally agree that my approach was bad. I shouldn't have said no. I realized that afterwards. But sometimes even saying a NO can be ok. Once I had a girl begging me for a cigarette when I said NO. She just didn't leave me alone. So this was the other extreme.
Just for the record, girls can indeed be bitchy. A girl that uses other people is a bitch. It doesn't matter how much times she gets laid by other people, she is a bitch. Bitchy is not defined as the amount of sex you have but it is merely the way you behave towards other people. The guy she opens her legs for is probably a retard or only interested in sex with her. By your theory all girls having sex are by definition no bitches. Very weird thinking of you. Even if for some reason I sent an AFC signal than if she was a decent person, she could just have said: "Ok, thanks anyway." and then walk away. A girl like that would be classy. But this one was clearly a bitch. She was pretty though.
Yes, you are right. At the moment I am just another guy in the club, an AFC. But you can't become a PUA in a few days. There are many problems that a person can have as a result of past experiences and I am now trying to solve them one by one. There is no need to look down at someone for being an AFC. During my years as a teenager I didn't had much time for learning the art of pickup as I was busy doing very hard studies and top sports. Because of my other talents I didn't had the time to work in this area. The girlfriends I had as a teenager were a result of them picking me up. I didn't even realize for a long long time that normally the guy should be the one to pickup the girl. Now that I realized it and read about this community, I am trying to learn this. But I started from zero. So I still have a long way to go. That is why I post my problems on this forum, in order for people to help me. It is kinda pity that you think you should reply in a C&B (cocky and bitchy) way. I still hope that one day your parents will manage to educate you properly.
I responded in this way because you choose to give me negative rep when I help WAY more people than you around here.
You do not contribute to this community, we help you, so don't act like a hotshot.
Point is she threw you an IOI and you responded like a dick/AFC and she responded in the same way.
Some of the many reasons could be :
1) she thought you were a loser and was using you for the cigarette
2) she threw you an IOI (conversational starter)
Wouw, so you are angry because I gave you a negative rep so you feel that you have to behave yourself as a little bitch ? You are so needy. This is an emotion you should fix because a real PUA doesn't need validation from nobody.
I give you negative rep because I read some of your replies when you first posted here and you behaved like a typical internet troll. However, I am not a harsh person and if your intention really is to help other people, than I welcome you with open arms. This forum is not intended to brag about yourself and tell how wonderfull you are and try to make fun with other people who have problems. The reason of this forum is to help each other. Most of the people here have serious problems and are here to try to find some help. They are all wonderfull people but for some reason they aren't very good with women. Try to make a difference in the world and help those people.
I fact I do contribute in the community, maybe not as much as others but I do. The thread I just started is a contribution to the community. The community is mostly focused on the guy doin everything. So there you are trying to open a set but suddenly a girl opens you and asks you for a cigarette. Even if in the worst case scenario she thinks of you as a loser that she wants to take advantage of, by gaming her properly it should be possible to DHV and attract her. At the moment it never came up to me to game her, but afterwards I thought 'Why didn't I try to game her, even if she was a bitch ?'. I was taken by surprise. I am sure that there are other men out there who also wouldn't think of gaming a girl that comes to ask you a cigarette. In fact, I saw her ask a cigarette to other people too and nobody gamed her. They all said "No, I don't smoke". So all those men reading this forum and never thought about gaming a woman that asks for a cigarette will know next time that they should game her and they have had enough example of how to game her. And all of this thanks to this thread that I started.
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