I was gaming a group today and a couple of girls in it were very foul mouthed - insults like "idiot", "moron" and "fcuk off" were added into every sentence, mostly aimed at me.

Since I used to have a bit of a short temper I just ignored them and focused on the rest of the group, but that just made them insult me even more and I could see that the rest of the group saw my evasiveness as a DLV.

So how do I respond to being insulted? I obviously don't want to insult them back as that would make me look immature (as well as being perceived as an outsider starting a fight). What's the proper way of dealing with this?

"aahahahaha, brat, come here ~hug~ you look exactly like my little sister, sooooo cute"


something along those lines.

Wouw, what a bunch of bitches. do you really want to pickup one of these bitchy girls or their friends ? They are friends for a reason.

My guess is that you should neg the bitchy girls. The purpose of negging is to put the bitchy girls back on planet Earth. I would even go a bit further than negging and try to insult her in a funny way such that she gets offended and the other members of her group start laughing with your comment. If she calls me an idiot I would say something like: "I love you too honey but I am more into blond girls. You can always come back when you dye your hair, lose 20 pounds and win the lottery." However, I didn't field test this because I never experienced bitchy girls like that but I am almost sure you have to insult them back in a funny way. I don't know whether may example was funny but I am sure you can come up with some funny insults.

"obviously your mother never taught you any manners " haha ppl that cuss for like that have issues unless you did something really perverse

Honestly, would you really wanna date a girl like this? I would just leave them alone..

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[quote=".Celeste."]I was gaming a group today and a couple of girls in it were very foul mouthed - insults like "idiot", "moron" and "fcuk off" were added into every sentence, mostly aimed at me. [quote]

If girls are saying this to you, then you're either a) doing something very wrong, and you need to reevaluate, or b) they are complete trash and should be ignored or walked away from.

If they insult you:
1. Never loose you coolness ( i mean with this that dont get angry )
2. Smile + try to keep it playfull with some counter strikes which includes light humour
3. If she is offended because you negged her too hard than add compliment to it ( i believe mystery told this ? ).
For example:
PUA: Oh, i like the way your nose jiggles when you laugh hard ( mystery )
HB: Offended*
PUA: But i must admit that your eyes just makes my heart beat faster ( Johnny B )

[ Johnny B ]

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There must be something you are doing wrong too. I am rereading the mystery method and it says that a girl uses insults to protect themselves from men with low S-and-R values. Maybe you open in a weird way with no confidence, or you are wearing something freaky or something else. Try to figure out which mistake you make. If you didn't make any mistake than they are just a bunch of bitches.