Do you think Men are mean because they don't care about your feelings? What makes a man a mean guy?

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Mean? where does meanness come into any of this?


animal, maybe.

but mean? that just doesn't make any sense.

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Magnum, as Chief and many other respected people have said to you:
see a therapist
You have issues that are more than "nice guy afc" we normally see on this forum. Simple things like not being able to have sex without feeling guilty and that "we are infecting your mind" means you need help from a therapist on a one to one basis, not over a web forum (which you keep saying you hate, yet return frequently).

I hope you get better man.

Great advice.

I nominate you for president. :O

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I'm going to have to agree with that seeing as I know from personal experience. In fact I'm waiting for a new I.D. right now as at the moment I can't get into clubs and similar feelings are coming back but at least I'm less of a psycho now. But shut away alone when you hear all your house mates going out and having a good time or hear about the fun people you know have had, well staying in while thats going on is NOT enjoyable.

@ Magnum: Frankly I started learning this stuff because I want to die with a smile on my face. I don't want to be old and useless asking myself "Why did I do that?", "Why didn't I do that?", "What was a scared of?" etc.

But what you do with your life, thats your problem, not ours. We will be willing to support and help you if you ask for it, if not then kindly bugger off and start living. People like you remind me of why I started running from how I used to be in the first place and started working on being a better person in every way.

Couldn't have said it better.

Magnum is an unsuccessful obvious troll.

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Not always

.......and with the way people are these days, thats NOT a bad thing

Alright then, give us your opinion on it then.
.......and with the way people are these days, thats NOT a bad thing [/quote]

Oh great, a misanthrope.

Were people any better/worse ten years ago? Perhaps in your vast experiences of human personality through the ages you could explain what the Hell you're on about?

Oh great, a misanthrope.

Were people any better/worse ten years ago? Perhaps in your vast experiences of human personality through the ages you could explain what the Hell you're on about?[/quote]

1: Sometimes its just nice to be alone.........unless you've got some sort of social attachment shit where you have to be around people all fuckin time and be socializing when you're not sleeping. Some people are more social than others. Get over it.

2: Not exactly a misanthrope, just someone that doesn't like a good portion of society. Other than that you're being a little too condescending to give a further answer to.

I like being alone sometimes too. In fact I LOVE solitude sometimes, I am a country boy and am fond of woodlands and tranquil lakelands so actually I don't feel the need to be around people constantly. However I enjoy the company of others and frankly I agree, not all people are as social as others and that's fair enough. I think though having a good circle of friends and chatting to them is healthy but we all need time alone because after all, we are human.

Newsflash mate, I don't like a good portion of society either but I learnt to cope with them. You'll always encounter pricks but there is always a rose among thorns. There are good people out there and to condense society like that is a trait I used to have too.

Its not a healthy outlook.

and that has nothing to do with what we are talking about. we're talking about CONSTANTLY being alone due to ones inability to recognize his issues and improve himself.

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So I have been communicating with this girl who is a friend of mine. She likes me because she flirts with me all the time. I like her because she is cute and fun. Not the type I would marry though.


She hinted at seing the Quintin Terintino movie. I was nervous, but I asked her "would you want to see it with me" because I wanted to see it. I was nervous because I imagined us being together and me not knowing how to ACT. I just didn't feel comfortable being a lone with her.

I saw her today on a film shoot and I was pressuring her to be a zombie. She didn't want to be, but I still persisted. Then I came up behind her and wrapped my arms around her and she pressed her butt into my penis. I lifted her off the ground, and she was like "OK, no good." I replied with " why are you so awakward, *nervous laughter*".

I figured the reason why it is so awakward between me and her is because I don't know what I want. I don't want to sex her because of all the negative things that happen from it.

I am tired of people who don't agree with me about the negative things that happen after sex.

I just need to focus on a serious relationship now. I don't need to go after a girl I can't see myself in the long run with. I need to make clear expections of what I want from the girl. I have to remove everything I learned about being crazying to keep a hold of HOT girls attention spans. That is not what I want.

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like what?

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Well, I can think of two things..........pregnancy and possible STDs.

wrap it up, and problem solved.

plus i don't think thats what he meant anyway.

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