Hey everyone!

And cheers from Bulgaria

I am new to all this pickup stuff, but it surely intrigues me. All I have read so far is a book called Weapons of mass seduction, but I plan to read more stuff soon. Starting with this nice forum here.

Okay, so I thought I'd have some action for myself here. Here's my situation:

I met this girl I believe would be labeled HB10 with your terminology here. We met on a dancing lesson. I am newbie to that too, so I couldn't stand out with very impressive dancing.
But beside that... I think it went somehow naturally well. After we all went to a restaurant and I talked with the girl a lot, and managed to show her personality I believe she found pretty impressive. Then we shared a walk and separated.
That was a week ago.
Now ... you may be wandering what my problem is
Well ... she's not really regularly coming to the dancing lessons and I'm the kind of guy who cannot stay on their butt for long.
I've got her FB (found it on my own)...

I am actually somewhat confused when it gets to picking up. I am very good with talking and people consider me very interesting but... I kinda miss something in directing the relation to intimacy.

One more thing: this girl, although being HB10 is pretty modest and at the same time cool. That is why I liked her so much.

So ... I think that's it. It's very interesting for me what would you guys say.

Thanks in advance

M.

Hey Scar welcome to the forum, haven't heard of the book you read so I can't really comment on that. One book I recommend is David De'Angelos "Double Your Dating" ebook. Also Real Social Dynamics Videos and Tapes particularly "Transformations" both of these changed my overall outlook of pickup and opened new doors.

Sounds like HB10 could be into you that's pretty sweet and also it sounds like you have a good part of this shit taken care of already which is awesome. Don't go adding her on FaceBook (if that's what FB meant?) not a smart move if you found it on your own, basically looks kind of stalker like. I say you get her mobile number in person if you don't already have it and arrange a date, somewhere cheap and not too try hard, see how things go from there. Remember there are thousands of other bitches out there even HB11! so don't just focus on her just now, go out and get some experience.

All the best in the future!

PS: HB10's don't exist in my galaxy!

Hey Alpha Lion ... haha

I become to realize what my main problem might be. My impatience pushes me at some moments to what you call "stalker" ... pretty good word. I think we don't have such in Bulgarian.
The bad thing is I wrote her in facebook. Something I had to add to the conversation we shared in person... anyway. I had the feeling it was maybe not ok to do but... screw it. So she added me as a friend...
But none if this matters. I'll just follow your advice, for which I'd like to point out I am very grateful

Hm... I just re-read my post and wanted to ask you: maybe I should have got her number right there the first night?

M.

Should have but didn't, (Generally it's best to get the number whilst things are going well). Don't beat yourself up too much though, because that's in the past you still got a chance to get it and that's all that matters.

Zdravei, dobre doshal.