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She was very receptive, and after I took her home, she said "why are you so nice?" I was very pleased with her comment.
You shouldn't have been pleased. That was your first clue that you were going to end up in the friend zone. Women are emotional creatures. They need emotional highs and lows, in other words they need passion. You didn't provide passion, you provided nice. There is nothing passionate about nice. It is bland and neutral. You were coming from a logical standpoint rather than an emotional standpoint. You were trying to be the best logical companion for her, rather than trying to give her new and varying feelings of emotion.
I understand where you are coming from Kalel. I think that if I was more passoniate she would of hooked up with me. I would of gotten her, but I am O.K. with not getting her.

In order for a long term relationship to work out, I am going to need a logical girl. I want a HOT girl, but I need a logical girl. My brain is the most exercised organ in my body. I have to have a girl that can keep up with me. I though she could, but I think it is just because she is French and has a worldly perspective. She relies on her emotions and that is fine.

Looking at her now I can't see myself being with her in a long term relationship. That is O.K. for me. I will filter girls out by being myself.

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That is the first real thing I think I have read from you. Do you think that maybe the reason why you are going fuck crazy is because of this pain you feel?
how am I going fuck crazy?

I love where my life is at right now (minus the whole not having been able to ship to boot camp on time)

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I need a logical girl
lol good luck with that

that shit is never gonna happen.

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lol good luck with that

that shit is never gonna happen.
Thats what YOU think. Some girls (not very many, to be fair, but some) are logical people.
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KristallNachte,

I think you are going fuck crazy because of your post on the other page where you said something to the effect of All girls need and want dick and it makes them happy when they get it because they are no longer frustrated.

I think you might be projecting your hurt onto other women. I don't know I am not a doctor I just have seen that a couple of times with my buddies who are in a lot of pain.

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In order for a long term relationship to work out, I am going to need a logical girl. I want a HOT girl, but I need a logical girl. My brain is the most exercised organ in my body. I have to have a girl that can keep up with me.
Even smart logical girls need emotion. They crave emotion like you crave hotness. You have to learn to get in touch with some of your emotions. That was one of my biggest struggles. Getting out of my head and into the interaction. It was hard for me to stop intellectualizing life and actually start feeling and experiencing it. Letting go and being free and wild, and passionate and uninhibited; was amazing.
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KristallNachte,

I think you are going fuck crazy because of your post on the other page where you said something to the effect of All girls need and want dick and it makes them happy when they get it because they are no longer frustrated.
What he was trying to articulate was that all women have a sex drive. They get horny just like men. And they have and enjoy sex. Women are like 10X more sexual than men, because it is such a deeper and more fulfilling experience for them, they crave it on deeper levels. And from the women I know, they do get rather sexually frustrated when they haven't had sex in a while. This is a hard concept for a "nice guy" to accept because it is contrary to our glorified perceptions of women. So we reject it by saying it isn't true, or compartmentalize it by saying it only applies to slutty or trashy women.
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In order for a long term relationship to work out, I am going to need a logical girl. I want a HOT girl, but I need a logical girl. My brain is the most exercised organ in my body. I have to have a girl that can keep up with me.
Even smart logical girls need emotion. They crave emotion like you crave hotness. You have to learn to get in touch with some of your emotions. That was one of my biggest struggles. Getting out of my head and into the interaction. It was hard for me to stop intellectualizing life and actually start feeling and experiencing it. Letting go and being free and wild, and passionate and uninhibited; was amazing.
I really don't think I have your problem. If anything I am scared to let myself fall in love. I think that I just want more secuirty before I commit. I can't tell the future, but I have pretty much talked my way to this point to a solid commitment.

I don't have your problems even though we might have things in common. I was never the nice guy. I was always the asshole (who didn't guess?).

Women who were low enough to degrate themselves to be with me worshipped me like a king.

Now I need to learn to respect women. I need to give back to them. I don't have a problem of being a sucker. I am quite the opposite to a fault. I need to work on respecting a womens decsisions. I actually have meet some girls who say something and then do it. I meet them in college through forced situations. These girls would never allow themselves to be pick up on unless they were blindsided. Actually it is just on girl, and she is very religious virgin. She says something and then does it. I respect her highly.

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I think you are going fuck crazy because of your post on the other page where you said something to the effect of All girls need and want dick and it makes them happy when they get it because they are no longer frustrated.
um what?

are you saying girls don't like sex?


thats funny considering many girls I've slept with brought up the idea of sex to me. like they wanted it.

example:

"i don't think i've ever wanted to sleep with a guy more in my entire life"

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These girls would never allow themselves to be pick up on unless they were blindsided.
what?

you are aware pick up gives girls everything they want and need right?

it gives them adventure, it appeals to all of them.


hell, I've used discussing pick up to pick up chicks.

I tell girls a while after meeting them that I know her attraction switches. they love it, and they thank me for it.


you're acting like PUAs don't like women and objectify them solely.

but in reality, most PUAs have a deeper love for women than these guys trying to be 'respectful" and "nice" because PUAs spend time learning how to make a women happy and get fired up.

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but in reality, most PUAs have a deeper love for women than these guys trying to be 'respectful" and "nice" because PUAs spend time learning how to make a women happy and get fired up.
Yes PUA's manipulate women to get what they want, but as style says, "WE manipulate people to make them like us! So what is the difference?"

Well most of the time the women feel awful after they just got used for nothing but an ejaculation pillow.

Thank you for ejaculating in me. I feel so less frustrated now.

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but in reality, most PUAs have a deeper love for women than these guys trying to be 'respectful" and "nice" because PUAs spend time learning how to make a women happy and get fired up.
Yes PUA's manipulate women to get what they want, but as style says, "WE manipulate people to make them like us! So what is the difference?"

Well most of the time the women feel awful after they just got used for nothing but an ejaculation pillow.

Thank you for ejaculating in me. I feel so less frustrated now.
xD That seems to be so true
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Yes PUA's manipulate women to get what they want, but as style says, "WE manipulate people to make them like us! So what is the difference?"

Well most of the time the women feel awful after they just got used for nothing but an ejaculation pillow.

Thank you for ejaculating in me. I feel so less frustrated now.
Well if they just layed there and got filled, I would agree with you. But that isn't how most sex is. You left out all the emotions, hormone releases, fulfillment, closeness, and pleasure women get out of sex. It's not just an exchange of body fluids.

Women get a lot out of sex beyond just the pleasure. That's why they have a glow about them the next day. They enjoy it on multiple levels, beyond simple insemination.
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Well most of the time the women feel awful after they just got used for nothing but an ejaculation pillow.
That's an assumption based upon your personal beliefs. You are still assuming they don't want to have sex. You are assuming they don't enjoy having sex. You are assuming they don't feel a need to have sex. They do.
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You know what is funny? So I just ask this girl if she has a glow about her the next day after sex...

I feel like a chump for asking her that.


Secondly is can you talk to a women like you are talking to me?


This is what she said:

11:30pmme
ok so after you have sex do you have a glow about you the next day?

11:30pmKristen
hahaha

yeah I think you do only because it's a huge release of tension

11:33pmKristen
but if your someone who has sex all the time I don't think they have a glow

what do you think

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You know what is funny? So I just ask this girl if she has a glow about her the next day after sex...

I feel like a chump for asking her that.


Secondly is can you talk to a women like you are talking to me?


This is what she said:

11:30pmME
ok so after you have sex do you have a glow about you the next day?

11:30pmKristen
hahaha

yeah I think you do only because it's a huge release of tension

11:33pmKristen
but if your someone who has sex all the time I don't think they have a glow

what do you think

11:34pmME
That is what my friends where saying. I was like naww girls only like sex from guys that they are in a relationship with.... lol

11:35pmKristen
yeah ive never liked it otherwise

it's just better when ur with the person because youve likely connected on other levels

otherwise it's very animalistic

11:37pmME
I heard it is ok to be animalistic in the bedroom.

11:37pmKristen
there's a difference btw animalistic and passionate tho

11:39pmME
would it be ok if you are all frustruated and this guy came and swept you off your feet and made you feel like a princess just for one night?

11:41pmKristen
only if he was a king

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