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Do you feel Ashamed for being a PUA?
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I don't want to think about it  7%  [ 8 ]
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 4:10 pm 
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I can't seem to have intercourse anymore without feeling guilty.
guilty about what?

Point 1. Women go out to get laid.
Point 2. 99.9% of guys’ game sucks.
Point 3. A female CANNOT have sex with a guy she is not attracted to. Due to Point 2 she is sexually frustrated.


Remember, they went out for SOMETHING and they didn’t get it! But, out of the blue, comes a man… A man with balls… A man who LIKES them and wants to make them feel good!

By going to bang her you are making the world a better place! She will feel less frustrated, more feminine and satisfied. This means she’ll be nicer to everyone around her the next day. All of those people will be happier that a girl was nicer to them than usual… Puppies and babies will be happy.

It’s a giant ripple effect!
I don't know why I feel guilty. Don't you feel guilty? I mean after a women gives up her only power to you don't you feel responsible for her feelings --- just a little?
Calling sex a woman's "only power" has got to be one of the most condescending and blatantly wrong remarks I have ever heard on this forum. Your problem isn't that you feel ashamed for wanting sex and knowing how to get it. You feel bad because you're projecting your own shitty view of women onto the girls in your life so you can pity them rather than view them as equals.

My advice: make some girl friends who you can respect as people and learn how the same respect can carry over into your romantic life.

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I think the reason PUA's don't respect themselves and head the advice to "just be yourself" is because we repell women.
what?


most puas i read actually say to be yourself, but train yourself to ALWAYS be your BEST self so that all of you is great, both to you and women.



and i agree with 870.

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Women go out to get laid? The teenager who posted that obviously has a lot to learn.


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I think you are right.

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Women go out to get laid? The teenager who posted that obviously has a lot to learn.
Its true, women go out to meet men! It depends on the context but thats generally very true. If theyll admit it or not is another story ;)

And I'm not a teenager!
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I'm always right, thanks!
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most puas i read actually say to be yourself, but train yourself to ALWAYS be your BEST self so that all of you is great, both to you and women.
Thats very sweet, but also very untrue. Most pickup artists have no idea what being yourself means.
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My advice: make some girl friends who you can respect as people and learn how the same respect can carry over into your romantic life.
Thats fairly decent advice. Id like to add that getting women who truly respect your friendship usually entails that they are a little bit attracted to you. So your not missing out, friends are very valuable! Women friends will do anything for you! I mean anything, i had a ps3 bought for me, psp with games and movies, i got introduced to industry professionals in my field of acting and music.... etc..
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I don't know why I feel guilty. Don't you feel guilty? I mean after a women gives up her only power to you don't you feel responsible for her feelings --- just a little?
That's your personal problem, it has nothing to do with women, maybe if you can elaborate on this more, so i can respond more adequately.
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aebate. If this was true, then it wouldn't use anecdotal experiences
Hobbit has the topic by the skirt again.
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You are not right, but 870 is.

I feel guilty because of my experiences. My mother used guilt to control my motivation in life for the first 14 years. She was an over dramatic queen. Now I also associate guilt with a women after sex.

My mother didn't want me to cheat on women like my father, so she some how made me feel guilty for having sex with a women.

I feel obligated to take care of the women after sex.

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I feel obligated to take care of the women after sex.
What can I say, there are professionals who can deal with your issues!

People may be asking why I'm not being particularly helpful, its simply because no amount of information will take you out of your misery. Your already failing by even thinking about this, let alone bringing it up! Get the fuck out of your home and start socializing instead of posting ridicules posts about how your mother breast fed you! its in our actions that we discover ourselves, and its in our inactions that we get lost. You my friend are very, very lost.

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5th thread of yours im replying to!!! WHOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! I NEED A LIFE. ;]]
just kidding.


You need to stop BLAMING EVERYTHING. You will get nowhere by saying "It's not my fault. It's THESE THINGS THAT MADE ME WHO I AM."

BULLSHIT.

You either let yourself believe you are weak and shit or you believe that you were previously being silly and now you need to step up and be a man.

1. Get rid of your ego. You are not special. You are one of billions of people. Think no one has been through anything similar to what you've been going through? Really???? BILLIONS.

That's 3,500,000,000. You are 1 of 3,500,000,000.
You are nobody. You are the same as everyone else.

So why do you torture yourself? You're just like everyone else.

You need to move on.

You are now stepping out of the 1st of 4 phases (imo) of PUA mastery.
Get rid of your ego, ditch the routines, focus on Happiness and Natural Game and simply having fun with your life rather than SCORING PUSSY ALL THE TIME.

GET A LIFE.

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Women go out to get laid? The teenager who posted that obviously has a lot to learn.
Go on. Explain your point.

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Impact struck another one out again.

I feel me and Impact are a lot alike.

Very scientifical.

When I'm right, I'm right - know why? Because I don't talk out of my ass, everything I say has been proven to work.

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You are now stepping out of the 1st of 4 phases (imo) of PUA mastery.

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What are you talking about?

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I think hes referring to the 4 stages of mastery set by David Deangelo
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You are now stepping out of the 1st of 4 phases (imo) of PUA mastery.
unconscious incompetence
conscious incompetence
conscious competence
unconscious competence

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I can't seem to have intercourse anymore without feeling guilty.
guilty about what?

Point 1. Women go out to get laid.
Point 2. 99.9% of guys’ game sucks.
Point 3. A female CANNOT have sex with a guy she is not attracted to. Due to Point 2 she is sexually frustrated.


Remember, they went out for SOMETHING and they didn’t get it! But, out of the blue, comes a man… A man with balls… A man who LIKES them and wants to make them feel good!

By going to bang her you are making the world a better place! She will feel less frustrated, more feminine and satisfied. This means she’ll be nicer to everyone around her the next day. All of those people will be happier that a girl was nicer to them than usual… Puppies and babies will be happy.

It’s a giant ripple effect!
Where did you come up with this twisted view on reality? Who agrees with you baised on personal experience? I know the PUA's preach shit like this, but this shit is garabage. If you are helping people by sputtering this nonsense you should consider stopping. You might be doing more harm than good. Delayed gratification is something you might want to consider. And when I say Delayed I mean like 5 years down the road, or even 20. It is your life, and it's the only one you have.

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oh GOD, what a cry-baby
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blaming on your childhood, mother, wtf?

my mother is bipolar and ive seen her manic plenty of times, I grew up with that
my parents are divorced, I had dumbo's ear, people made me feel bad when I had it, and after it made me feel bad cause it got weird after cirgury, I was sociophobic, social inept, had a stack of traumas
I had problems with drugs and was put in a clinic with a bunch of insane people like me & my state at the time

so how did I free myself from all this? Ive read some philosophy, a lot about religions of all sort, social dinamics and just built myself

Im the owner of everything I am, my atittude, my morals, my principles, my spirituality, my skills and my happiness.. I love myself
my brain is my fucking patrimony I can go anywhere!
Im not a retard that went here on this things taking it for granted, I was born authentic and will never cease to be, I took it the way it pleased me
women like me somehow for this personality, they befriend me and give me value and I don't even see the reason why
I read on the basics, tried them, observed, learned and improved myself, starting from the basic principles that made sense I spined it off to my way, whats so difficult about that?
Im meeting a hot girl at night and I still want a relationship, but I won't freak out about that, Im sure Ill be in love someday and will enjoy it until it lasts, no problem
Ive got friends nickname me "alpha male" and Im short and skinny
all in all, Im not in anyway a mpua, to me this is much more about social dinamics than laying women, and its one of the best things I did in my life

thing is, I decided to be the person I wanted to be, I find myself tripping about greatness and I seek that, also, I don't go blaming anything for my problems, thats fucking retarded

so what are you crying about for god's sake?


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oh GOD, what a cry-baby
You are so sexy I want to just jump on you.

I am "crying" because I am hurting. I am dealing with this right now in my life and I am trying to overcome it.

I don't need to lecture you.

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