So i was reading up on some terms like DHV, HB, etc.. and came across the 3 second rule. I have heard of that before but never really thought people used it..
I feel like 3 seconds to approach a girl is rough.. especially if shes with a crowd of her girlfriends.

Does it just take practice to do and overcome it?

How many people here actually abide to that rule?

Did it personally help you in your own experiences?


Thanks,
CJ

"I feel like 3 seconds to approach a girl is rough.. especially if shes with a crowd of her girlfriends."

Ok, it seems that you are trying to open one girl ( who is your target ) from the group right? I would suggest that instead of one you should open the whole group and ignore your target a bit so she can build up attraction toward you... so dont be affraid to go to open the whole set if they are talking to each other.

"Does it just take practice to do and overcome it?"

Well if you do it enough it becomes a routine to you so yes...

"How many people here actually abide to that rule?"

Well i try to follow that 3 second rule. The more time you spend thinking about whether you should try to approach them or not makes it more difficult.. of course i first try to find a perfect set ( usually a 2-4 women, not moving and a place that aint so loud so i dont have to scream ) before opening but after that, 3 second rule..


Did it personally help you in your own experiences?

Yes.

[ Johnny B. ]

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Personally, I don't follow the "3 second rule."

Its not because I stand there waiting. Its because i cant count to 3.

DJ Fuji calls it the 1 scond rule.

I see cutie. I talk to cutie.
NO HESITATION.

If she is with friends, I talk to her and her friends.
If she is with a guy, I plow.

I dont actively "seek" targets. I just see and GO! "seeking" a target takes you out of the moment and puts you more into your head.

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