3rd date, who should initiate contact?



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 3:14 pm 
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We have a 3rd date scheduled, (re-scheduled rather, and I forgot to give her crap for it) on Sunday. The date was her suggestion, not mine, but I'm the one who initiated contact. I'm worried that I always initiate, and that I like her a bit too much.

When should I let her come to me? Or should I just keep initiating contact?

My friend's advice:

Don't contact her. Let her call you and remind you of the plans Sunday. If she never calls, you know what you are to her. Send her a text an hour or so late and say, "I thought we had plans today?" if she has an excuse, don't respond, and if she wants to hang out, tell her you made other plans because she didn't call.

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HB. Size 2, editor for a major publisher, type A all the way. F Closed last weekend. She was a little awkward in the morning, so I called that night to say I had fun, but she didn't want to talk for very long. 2 days later she sends a friend request on fb(haven't accepted) which is the only contact she's truly initiated. 4 days later, I texted her 3 times. She replies to the first one then calls me and asks me out for drinks that night. As I'm getting ready, she re-schedules to Sunday which I say is fine because I need to hang out with my buddy blah blah blah. The next morning I start to over-analyze the situation and decide post on a PUA forum.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 3:59 pm 
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 7:45 pm 
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Thanks man, I like that way of thinking.

I'm so used to letting girls come to me (which is maybe why I'd always date 6's or 7's), the whole idea of chasing is still rather new. The girls are hotter though!


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